- 7 years ago
Hi, ladies and gents. I have been on here whining off and on about my sweetie’s lack of readiness to get hitched. Today, I am seeing it in another way.
He is one of five siblings. Tonight his (and my) favorite is coming for the weekend. As I’ve imagined, and talked to Sweetie, this sibling and my daughter is all we would really need to be married with the most important people in our lives as witnesses. We have progressed so much in our relationship since this sib’s (sister) visit last year around Christmas time!
I’m excited to see her because I really like her and also am proud to share our new and improved relationship with her. I had a moment in plan-ahead-planning, when I thought: “we need to have an ipod reception (cost and logistics). OMG: what if it stops and someone has to forward it to the next song or something!!!” Today I thought of the same scenario and realized we are a laid back bunch and someone will just press the button! This isn’t a performance we’ll be having; it will be a celebration of our union. Our party. *breathe*
I have been telling myself all details aren’t important, but not believing it. Somehow, today I KNOW they’re not. As long as we are there with an officiant, with the people we love, all the rest is just window dressing.
I’m not Ms. Patient. I’ve already found a place for the ceremony and reception and a date when they are both available and Sweetie’s sis is going to be up from Cali already. I discussed the locations with Sweetie and he really liked them.
I am blessed to be loved by a kind, supportive, smart, funny, good man. I wish the same for you (unless your sweetie is a she!).