(Closed) Hard time accepting that my brother’s not coming (and the WHY– he’s in jail)..

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Not exactly the same situation, but my FI just found out that his best man can’t be at our wedding because he is being deployed to Iraq, AGAIN. We also feel the sadness that you do at having someone we care so much about not being able to attend. I defintely think you should videotape the wedding so that he can watch it later. Also, FI’s best man is going to be writing a letter to us as a couple to be read at the wedding on his behalf. It will help us to feel like he is there. Hugs, sorry you are going through this

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so sorry your brother can’t be there for your wedding. I have two older brothers, and even though they can be huge pains in the ass, I know how important they are to me. 

Maybe you can include his presence on your wedding by having some pictures of the two of you or something like that. 

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