(Closed) Hard time with the in-laws

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I am very sorry it ended up like this *hugs*

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sorry this is happening you. I think it is more common than one might think though, similar thing happend to me (not as complicated) but the whole time my hubby and I were engaged my mother kept telling us to get married in Septmember not in May. She refused to help pay for one single thing, and hubby ended up paying for everything. Even my dress. 🙁 It would have been really special if my mom had bought it for me, she had been telling me she would take care of everything for years leading up to my wedding but once we get engaged and set a date she changed her mind. It hurt our feelings but we just grinned and bore it and tried to make the most of things.

My advice to you is although it hurts and its not ideal all you can do is move on, make your wedding plans, get married and if FI father decides to be bitter about it the whole time then that’s his problem. What are you gonna do, wait around forever for FI father to change his mind so you can start your life together?

 

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