Post # 1
I am a BM in one of my best friends weddings next summer, and I am sooo excited for her. I just met her for lunch, and we talked about all kinds of wedding stuff, and it was just so much fun but now I am hating waiting soooo much more. My SO and I are in a LDR, and it will be almost 6 weeks until I see him again, so the surprise proposal I was hoping for in October is out, I am pretty sure. I am thinking Thanksgiving will be the earliest it would happen now, and I am just so bummed. I miss him like crazy, and it has just been 1 week since I saw him! I don’t want to wait 6 more weeks to see him, and I dont want to wait any more for a proposal! Why are guys soooo slow about this? We know we want to spend our lives together…Why can’t he just put a ring on it already!?
Post # 3
*hugs* LDRs are so hard. I always find that the first week after seeing him is the hardest and then it gets easier.
Just try (and I know that it is hard) and focus on all of the things you can do in peace and alone that very soon you won’t be able to because you’ll be together!
Post # 4
Awww hun I’m sorry you’re finding it so hard but Thanksgiving isn’t that far away and with how fast the time is flying, 6 weeks will be over in no time. Keep yourself busy, vent to your fellow bees, do whatever you can to keep yourself occupied and hopefully you’ll be reunited with a ring on your finger in no time.
Post # 5
I know what you mean! Why do they have to wait so freakin long sometimes. Men are just turtles when it comes to these sorts of things. They don’t get nearly as excited and antsy as we do. They think la de da, “I think I might look at rings today oh football game is on switch gears, ok after game… Maybe I should try to decide which ring to get her oh I have work to do, maybe I will get to that later”. An LDR must make this a lot harder but seems like you know it will happen soon and Thanksgiving will be here in no time!
Post # 6
Let me just say, I’m really glad that you’re happy for your friend instead of being jealous, I know it can be really difficult for us ladies still waiting. I’m sure he’s having a hard time being away from you for another 6 weeks too! Hang in there, if you two can make it through a LDR I’m sure you’ll be able to weather much more difficult things in the future!