- 3 years ago
With the new year coming, we know that the chances may present themselves for a holiday proposal! I for sure know that it’ll happen before 2014 for me, but with the holidays being SO busy with commitments to family, coworkers, and social circle, there’s very few days left that it might happen !
Every time I am invited to a new event for the last half of this month, I am hesitant to say yes. I feel bad saying no to people, and not having a solid reason to decline. I am not a flaky friend ever, and I have a very small social circle that I’m very loyal to. I also wanted to pick up a seasonal job but don’t want to risk being scheduled on the day he has the proposal planned.
It’s too bad waiting bees can’t just KNOW the date, right? But I talked to my mom, and she narrowed down a time frame that I should decline all plans (she knows all deets and has to keep it a secret). Thank goodness. It still feel awkward though.
Is anyone else going through the same thing, or has before ?