(Closed) Has anyone discussed…..

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
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  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I don’t have a beef with other couples who want to do them but we would never. We are very happy with our sexual relationship and would never want to bring in another party.

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee

    No, we’re in mutual agreement for the most part…however, I’m always curious a little bit, not enough to go against what Fiance wants.  Plus I’m perfectly happy with just us two.

    Post # 5
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We have talked about it. Neither of us is interested.  I have to say I was relieved when he said he wouldn’t want that either.

    Post # 6
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We’ve talked about it when things like that are going on during the TV show we are watching.

    And we mutually decided that we aren’t interested in it – not in our relationship!

    We both would have been more open to the idea if we were single but wouldn’t want to bring someone else into our relationship! As Samantha from SATC you want to be the guest appearance and that is all!

    Post # 8
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    478 posts
    Helper bee

    Neither of us are into that kind of thing, thank god! Not that I have a problem with other experimenting with their relationship (whatever floats your boat!) but if he wanted one, I wouldn’t be able to do it. We’re both monogamous lovers. 🙂

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    IN MY OPINION……. not that I would know anything about this issue (ahem), threesomes can be very sucessful but ONLY when YOU are the 3rd person (i.e. when you are the person that the couple brings in). Lots of fun, and no drama. You go home at the end of the night and leave the experience there behind you.

    Not that I would know anything about it.

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If it were “just sex” with 2 people I didn’t have deep romantic feelings for (f***-buddy status) I might do it.

    But in a relationship, nope. I do not want anybody else touching my man!

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I feel like the could open a whole can of worms – so why potentially cause problems by introducing something that you may not want to be part of the relationship.

    I don’t think you know how it would affect the relationship till after so why take a chance?

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We’ve done it a couple of times with our best friend couple. Theyre true swingers and one night we just went with it, and had a lot of fun! The next time, since I was anticipating it, I was a little more nervous but I got over it and it was awesome then too. Might just be me, but its super hot knowing you’re being watched and turning on another couple.

    But – Both times afterwards I felt weird, for a while. I couldn’t get it out of my head and I felt awkward and have decided I don’t want to do it anymore. I wouldn’t mind doing it again 😛 but not with the same couple, they start to expect that you’ll do it every time you see them and that can get awkward.

    Post # 13
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    1032 posts
    Bumble bee

    I think that is playing with fire. It’s a mutual agreement that sexual intimacy is between us and only us.

    Post # 15
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    2829 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Discussed it at length.

    As interesting as it may sound, there are too many “risks” involved for us to be 100% comfotable with the idea. (jealousy, health, etc).

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee

    We’ve talked about it lots, because we’ve done it several times. Came up quite early in the relationship (during those “have you ever” type conversations).

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