(Closed) Has anyone ever gone snooping???

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1543 posts
Bumble bee

No, you’re not the only one 🙂 Guilty here. I’ve checked his browser history. Embarassed  Bad, girl, I know. Maybe I deserve a spanking.

Post # 4
810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Also guilty! Although I’ve learned my lesson as far as internet snooping goes… instead of ring evidence I found his “secret” porn stash, lol!  So then I was in the process of turning the house upside-down looking for physical evidence and he caught me!! I admitted to him what I was doing and he said, “I know you too well.  If I have anything that’s a suprise for you, it’s not gonna be in the house!” Sneaky boy…

Post # 6
1314 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016


:-/ I did it as soon as we talked about marriage. I soon stopped because I wanted to be surprised! My little sister gave it away anyways, but at least I tried.

Post # 7
870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I haven’t. I’ve thought about it, but one it seems like an invasion of his privacy and two I’d rather have the whole thing be a surprise. I’ve already had to wait longer than I think most people would (coming up on 7 years now), and that has already taken the shine off a potential engagement. I’d hate to ruin the other part which would be the surprise factor of it. 

(On the other hand if he didn’t want it to be a surprise I think I’d be fine with that too–just going ring shopping together, etc.)

Post # 8
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I haven’t snooped, but my bf is OVERLY protective of his phone for some odd reason.  I know he’s not cheating, but if I’m playful and use his phone or have to (cause he’s driving) he becomes really anal about me not seeing the pictures.

It makes me worry, but I won’t snoop.  I trust him.

Post # 9
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m married but I do have to comment on this post. I knew I was getting engaged as I designed my ring but I had no clue when it would be done, aka when he would propose. I knew his online banking password and every day I was beyond tempted to see if the money was gone. I fought it on a daily basis, but in the end I never did snoop because I knew I coudn’t fake being surprised for the proposal if I already found out. Those were some long couple of months!

Post # 10
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

I’ve snooped but it was very half-heartedly because 1) I knew there was nothing to find and 2) I didn’t really want to find it because I want more for it to be a surprise.  I can’t fake surprise, or any emotion for that matter, so it has to be a genuine surprise.  I also snooped his web history to see if he’s been searching for E-rings or anything, but we both use Google Chrome and it has an Incogito Window you can use that won’t save to your browsing history or anything you type.  It’s how I look on weddingbee so he doesn’t find out about it so I would assume that’s how he would search for an Engagement Ring.

Post # 11
3303 posts
Sugar bee

I did- because he was acting weird the day he proposed. I thought he didn’t have the money for a ring but he ended up acting weird so I started feeling around his clothes and found a ring box in his pocket. Went from thinking nothing at all to nauseous because it was real that he was going to do it.

Post # 12
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

i want to snoop sooo bad! my boyfriend got the ring last week and i know he has it. he came home from mysteriously needing to get gas in the car with a small ring box shape in the chest pocket of his coat. (haha!) he knows i know, but now i don’t know where he hid it. one day when he wasn’t around i went to his coat and felt the box through the fabric, my heart started to race because i came to the realization “wow! this is it!! this is my ring!” now i’m just dyingggggggggggggg to know when he’s going to pop the question. i’ve told myself i can’t go snooping for the ring anymore, because i don’t want to have already seen it before he wishes me too. i’m so bad at putting on a poker face anyways, so he’d know in a second that i had already seen it. *sighh*

Post # 13
2195 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m trying SO hard not to snoop. I have a feeling that I am in the presence of diamonds as we speak…It’s no easy task, girls! I totally understand.

Post # 14
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012


Hahaha, isn’t it funny how us women can sniff out a diamond from a mile away?

P.S., I LOVE your avatar, it’s so cute!

Post # 15
329 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I was definitely a snooper. However, I started snooping too early. Then, when he actually starting doing things (like going to stores, buying the ring…. etc…) he was not good at covering his tracks and left evidence in plain sight. Ex. Business cards on his kitchen table, a reciept in his shorts pocket in the laundry – which he washes at my house. Dumb boy haha

So, I definitely knew it was coming, but he still surprised me because it happened so quickly. I thought he was going to hang onto the ring longer than he did.

Post # 16
923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

When I suspected it was coming, I snooped, and this is what I found…



Needless to say, I think he wanted me to snoop.  He was pretty proud of himself for pranking me like this.  🙂


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