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i did some research on sites and packages that offer name changing services and from what I found, it was a waste of money. They simply give you all the paperwork you need which you can get by googling changing my name or something related. I started at the Social Security office and then went to the DMV and then called all my credit card comps and banks. It was easy for me and I saved the $30+ those places charge.
I hope that helps!
The only thing I ever had to pay for when changing my name was the $10 it costs to get a new license. I personally don't think they are worth it. But, I have heard of people using them and liking it. I guess I am just more of a "do it myself" kind of person... that being said, I got married almost 7 months ago and the Social Security Office has yet to see my shining face! That is the last place I have on my list and I have yet to go... its a freaking hour away darn it!
I saw this thread awhile ago:
http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/missnowmrs-changing-your-name-the-easy-way
It recommends http://www.missnowmrs.com and I think it's only $25. Kinda seems worth it to me.
ETA: Actually, rereading the thread, it looks like there's mixed reviews sooo not so helpful... :/
Thanks girls! I think, looking at it, I may give it a try, but with the premise that I know spending this money is literally just to give myself a kick in the tush to get it done. I could see how this could be a fun bridal shower gift, and not too sure how many girls (like myself) will want to spend money on this!
Totally helps to hear everyone's input on the matter. I just need to kick myself into gear and get it done!
I had purchased a coupon somewhere and paid, I can't remember, but probably around $20 or $25 for msnowmrs and really, they just gave you the paperwork to fill out ahead of time. What I liked is that it confirmed for me what I needed to change. Going to the social security office was interesting - lots of characters there, but I still have not changed my license or my credit cards. I'm so lazy about that and there are no forms for these. You just have to notify each one. I've got to get on that and get to the DMV within the next month as my license is about to expire anyway.
Oh, and one thing I forgot to note was that changing my name at work was such a pain. My email address is changed, but the display name still shows my maiden name and I work for a large corproration so trying to get tech support to change it has been impossible. It has created so much confusion that I am just switching back to my maiden name for work purposes. It's just easier that way for me.
What I liked about MissnowMrs.com was that it autofills the forms with all the basic info so you don't have to keep retyping your name, address, etc., and it collects the forms into one place so that you don't have to search through a million websites. Also, there were some forms I hadn't thought of, like changing your name/address with the IRS, etc. I found it saved some time and for me, that was worth it, even though it still requires a lot of action on your own, which is probably why I'm still only half way through the whole process. :)
I didn't do it. Honestly, didn't want to spend for something that really isn't that hard to do. Social security and DMV were the most annoying, and for the majority of my bank accounts or credit cards, I had to send them a copy of my new license, no paperwork really needed.
PS - You don't need to notify the IRS seperately, they know when SSA knows.
I didn't but wish I had. A friend did and she got everything done way more quickly than I did - if you have a ton of time, its probably a waste, but if you don't it seems like a good idea to me :)
People who have changed their name, do you just go to SS first, with your marriage cert? Also, if I'm changing my whole name, ie, my name now is Jane Deer Smith, and I'm marrying John Doe, my married name is going to be, Jane Deer (middle) Smith (last) Doe. How much explaining am I going to have to do? And Do i put my new name on my marriage cert?
@gogogiraffes: This all depends on where you live. Where I got married in Colorado, I put my maiden name on the license and went to SS after I got my license back. They asked what I wanted my name to be. I have heard some bees say that they weren't allowed to have two middle names, seems to depend on the office they go to.
@chrispygal: date twin! :)
@Janna19: Hmm thanks for telling the story. I just really need a kick in the tush to get this done. It's hanging over my head and driving me nuts!
Thanks again girls! Great input!!
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I am almost 5 months out of our wedding, and I have something to admit.
I still have not changed my name. Out of sheer laziness.
I started thinking about all the places I'd have to go, lines I'd have to stand in, and it just...never happened.
This morning theknot.com came out with their 2012 vendor awards, and I noticed http://www.imamrs.com/.
Just curious if anyone has used a name change service like this, and if it was really worth your while?