(Closed) Has this happened to anyone else..??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@CPD: This has happened to me. Everyone has an opinion about the wedding and finds a reason why it has to be all about them. Originally I got in a fight with a certain -zilla that will remain nameless about having seafood served at my wedding. I am allergic–hives all over my body, it gets hard to breathe–allergic. And they tried to convince me it was selfish on my part to not want shellfish. I put my foot down and in the planning kit my wedding planner gave me guess what I put—DEATHLY ALLERGIC TO SHELLFISH.

You need to put your foot down or you will never get excited about this wedding again–except for when you see your future husband standing at the alter of course. I got lucky–the -zilla and I are fighting so I have decided to do everything my way. Do what’s best for you!!

Post # 4
Member
1253 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Things aren’t going to go your way until you stop saying yes to things that you don’t really want. You’ve got to start speaking up, it’s your wedding and of course everyone in the family is going to have some sort of opinion or input. But ultimately you are the one with the power, it’s your wedding and you need to speak up! Easier said than done, but it has to be done

Post # 6
Member
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@CPD:

Do NOT be afraid to voice your opinion. This is to be the happiest day of your life. I would write a list of everything you want to changed about your wedding, and DO IT. Be prepared for backlash and to be called a bridezilla. It’s ok; people do not like loosing control!

Surround yourself by an awesome bridal party that will love and support you 1000%

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