(Closed) Have we been uninvited?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Well, my destination wedding is at the end of March, and I sent out invites a couple weeks ago, but I guess it’s possible they haven’t sent them yet. Also, even though I lost touch with some people in between sending the STD’s and the invites, I sent an invite to everyone I sent an STD to because it’s just rude not to without talking to the person personally.

Post # 4
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

STDs are sent so you can plan in advance, so only someone with really awful manners would uninvite you AND not tell you (thereby letting you make plans). So either your invite got lost, they haven’t been sent yet or you were uninvited.  No other way to figure it out than to pick up the phone!

Post # 5
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754 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

I would assume you were still invited, but to avoid confusion, you really should contact them (email through their website?).  Invitations do sometimes get lost and people forgotten. 

Post # 6
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225 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I would give them a call; something seems weird!

Post # 8
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765 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I would assume you are still invited too.  If you don’t get your invites in the next few days, I’d call 🙂

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

KateMW — I totally would have been thinking the same thing!!  I’m glad you got it and it’s all sorted out — that just reminds all of us to make sure we send our invites in plenty of time to all the right people!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

OMG, you just convinced me to send our invites out early!  Thanks for the post!

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