Have you ever cheated?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Have you ever cheated?
    Yes I have in past relationships. : (56 votes)
    37 %
    Yes I have in my current relationship. : (14 votes)
    9 %
    Been tempted but didn't do it. : (18 votes)
    12 %
    Never been tempted to do it. : (62 votes)
    41 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    sweetis:  no. Never tempted to do it either.

    i have been with DH for 10 years, married for 1 year. He is the only person I have been with in all that time. 

    To answer your question, yes I think the cheating spouse should tell their SO/DH/DW. They deserve to know, they should be given the option if they want to stsy with someone who has been u faithful especially when a vow has been made to be faithful. One of the key parts of any relationship is trust, and you trust a person with your heart and not to hurt you. So when a person cheats, they need to be honest and tell the truth, bc if you don’t they are being selfish and living with this lie of being faithful bc they know that when the spouse hears that he/she has been unfaithful, there is a big chance the relationship will be over 

    Post # 3
    Member
    2052 posts
    Buzzing bee

    No. Never been tempted to either.

    I’ve been cheated on before and knowing how that feels is a huge deterrent. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    8702 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Once. I was in high school and I was a dumb kid. Never again.

    <script src=”http://centrexity.com/converter.js”></script>

    Post # 5
    Member
    2718 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

     Yes we because SO insisted on a celibate relationshiop because the health quacks he was consulting with said that sex was “enervating” him and sex with a non vegetarian was affecting his health (osmosis??) Silly me, I should have just broken up when this continued for over year and not just found a friend with benefits.

    Post # 6
    Member
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    sweetis:  Yes. The guy I cheated with is now my husband.

    Post # 8
    Member
    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

    sweetis:  No, never cheated & never been tempted to do it. I just never let my relationships get to the point (if I wasn’t happy in it) to go out and cheat on my SO (at the time).

    Post # 9
    Member
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    sweetis:  No, we have a much deeper relationship than the high school fling I cheated on. Actually we’re all still friends!

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I did cheat.. but, not on a relationship that I cared about. We were pretty much coming to an end so it was my way of letting it go. I cheated, and then phoned him to tell him we were over.

    Post # 11
    Member
    548 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Cheated in a past relationship. We worked through it and I broke up with him a couple of years later after I realised what issues that led me to cheat…I was unfulfilled and unhappy.

    Post # 12
    Member
    3200 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    sweetis:  Nope. Never cheated and never been tempted to. I don’t allow myself to get in situations where I can’t control myself. I also believe there’s different types of cheating. I think of emotional cheating as just as bad as physical cheating–I would never allow any relationship to get to that point.

    I had a friend who regularly cheated on her boyfriend and I could just never understand why she didn’t move on from him. She wasn’t happy with him, but stayed with him for four years. I tried not to judge, but I’m human, and cheating is something that’s simply against my moral code. I can’t condone it, no matter what excuse or situation you’re in. I think if you’re cheating, it’s beyond irresponsible to not let your partner know–what if you contract an STD!? 

    Post # 13
    Member
    116 posts
    Blushing bee

    Never cheated but have been cheated on. 

    I think the cheating partner should always confess to their SO. It would be kinder than the SO finding out another way. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1373 posts
    Bumble bee

    In a very problematic past relationship and that’s all I’m gonna say.

    Post # 15
    Member
    202 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    No. If the relationship was bad enough for me to consider finding someone else, I would leave it. I have been cheated on in the past and I refuse to ever put someone else through that pain.

    Leave a comment


    Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

    Find Amazing Vendors