Post # 1
Have you ever fantasized about a guy (or girl) friend of yours?
Not necessarily in a serious or obsessive way. Did someone that you know kind of well but don’t see in a romantic way in real life ever appeared in a fantasy you have? Because they are hot or interesting or for whatever reason.
How did that make you feel? Weird, guilty or ”who cares, they are just fantasies”?
Post # 3
No. Fantasising about people you actually know is just weird. Every time I am tempted, I stop, and mentally slap myself in the face. It just feels too invasive and stalker-ish. I may or may not have had to do this several times.
I’ll restrict my fantasies to imaginary characters, thanks. Much safer that way.
Post # 4
Yes. I have a super close guy friend that sometimes, I would have quick second wonder how we will be like if we are couple. Reason for that we have very simliar mind, the longer we know each other… we can complete each other sentence without even thinking about it. like we read each other mind. But would I pick him as my SO, no, we know very clear that we are friends
Post # 5
Yeah, I’ve had fantasies about a few guy friends. Not often, and it makes me feel weird. But sometimes I happen to be a little horny and an attractive guy friend is in sight haha. I try to stop myself for the most part but every once in a while I’ll indulge it for a few minutes.
I’ve also fantasized about female friends because I’d be interested in experimenting. I just think the female body is sexy. It also makes me feel a little bit weird but not in the guilty way.
Post # 5
juliana192: Exactly my thoughts, never with close people though.