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Have you ever Fantasized about another man/woman?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever fantasized about another man/woman?
    Yes : (24 votes)
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    No : (5 votes)
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    In my dreams only : (4 votes)
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    flamingo    June 21, 2008   Montreal, Qc Canada

    So ya, I have a question for you all. Now, that your married, I was wondering if you ever fantasized about another man/woman? Not that it means anything really, because you love you husband/wife, but Im curious to know.

    I will be honest, I have (both in my dreams and in real life) but its nothing that I am worried about. I have never fantasized about someone else before... and since I started dating Mr.Flamingo it never happened, but now that were married, its kicked in. Maybe its just cause we are legally bonded... I have no clue.

    It can be a scary feeling trust me, but I LOVE MR.F and I know I would never do anything stupid to ruin that. So ya, spill the beans, I'm sure I'm not the only one.

     
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    shanananna    10/11/2008   Folsom, CA

    Its normal to do so.  What I dont like to think about is...he's probably doing the same thing!  Its totally natrual and dont let yourself get hung up about it.  You always remember the things you loved or enjoyed about the people you were with before and your brain tends to forget about all of the things you hated.  The grass is always greener you just have to make sure you are happy with the pasture you chose! 

    I dont quite classify myself as a newlywed though.  My new hubby and have been together for 10 years, living together for 8 years and were just married this last October 10th.  So the newlywed haze of enchantment ended about 8 years ago!  Hahaha. Have you ever Fantasized about another man/woman? :  wedding Icon Wink

     
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    flamingo    June 21, 2008   Montreal, Qc Canada

    I agree Shanananna.... its bound to happen, and Im sure hes done the same. (Hes studying nursing and is the only guy in a class of 24) so ya, im sure hes fantasized.

    Thanks for the comment, I was thinking no one was sharing this with me ;)

     
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    corn    September 8, 2007   Boston, MA

    oh, absolutely!  It's human nature.

     
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    Niki    05/31/2008  

    Of course!  I have a great imagination.  I will fantasize about all sorts of things.  I think it is the reader in me.  Us readers do a lot of visualizing in our heads. 

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