Have you ever fantasized about you SO being with another woman?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Have you ever fantasized about your SO being with another woman?
    Yes : (66 votes)
    21 %
    No : (231 votes)
    75 %
    Even worse... : (11 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Ewww hell no!

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Hm, maybe a couple times. But generally, no. It’s not an idea that turns me on.

    Post # 6
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    602 posts
    Busy bee

    @Secret_Bee:  Yes, but then again, I am also polyamorous, so it’s not a sexual fantasy, more of a compersion sort of fantasy.

    Post # 7
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    3097 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    No. I sometimes imagine it (after watching Cheaters lol) but I don’t get turned on I start tearing up and wondering what I would do…

    Post # 8
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    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    @Secret_Bee:  Lmao if it makes u feel better the eww isnt towards u, its thinking of my fiances nasty ex

    Post # 10
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    547 posts
    Busy bee

    @Secret_Bee:  I can relate. My SO and I have been together for nearly ten years, and I’d be devastated if he ever cheated on me, but I actually have been a bit turned on when thinking about him with his past partners, or when I see a woman checking him out. 

    He’s really good in bed and has a big penis, so it kinda piques my interest thinking of him making women in the past feel the way he makes me feel (i.e. orgasms during sex etc). However, I’d never try to encourags him to dance with another woman. Lol, I’m too jealous for that.

    Post # 13
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    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    @Secret_Bee:  hehe nope, hey im as “freaky” as they come, any fetish that works for u, the more power to ya lol

    Post # 15
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    3097 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    @Secret_Bee:  

    i wouldn’t mind if he got hit on I think that would be neat since I know he wouldn’t.pursue it.

    hehehe one time so came home i was watching it with tears in my eyes and he was like you need to stop! Haha. Not always but some really get to me.

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    No… It makes me feel kind of weird and jealous… I can see how it would be a bit of a turn on though!

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