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    artwyopie    October 20, 2012   Northern MN

     At the start of the engagement I was super pumped about calling vendors, the church, looking at wedding inspiration, etc etc. But now I don't want  to even think about weddings, let alone plan my own. I don't know how I got into this planning funk but I want to get out of it.  I'm the Debbie Downer of wedding planning! lol.

    have any of you ladies felt like this? how did you get out of it? or did you just let it ride out.

     

     
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    futuremrsdq      

    I am RIGHT there with you. My date is Nov.6, so I'm really right around the corner. However, I'm at the point that I don't want to think about another decision! I get depressed thinking about it and somewhat mad when people ask me about it, lol

    To get myself out of it, I'll normally look at myself in my dress or focus on some other element that just makes me jump for joy! I definitely advise taking a break from the planning for a week or few days.

     

    Ultimately.. I just want my hubby and my honeymoon!!

     
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    LadyGoodman    September 25, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I'm a month out from my wedding but basically haven't done a whole lot between the first few months of getting engaged and now, when I have to . . . I think it's fine to not be super into and excited about planning, as long as you don't  get wrapped up into those feelings and be a "Debbie Downer."  I was totally fine with my attitude and honestly, there's a whole lot else going on in life that you can enjoy just as much, if not more, than planning!

     
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    artwyopie    October 20, 2012   Northern MN

     true true! i do have a ton of other stuff that I am totally pumped about.  But when it come wedding stuff... I'm just like whatever. lol. I'll just ride it out and see how I feel about in a couple of weeks or months. I was just wondering if anyone else felt like that.

     

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