Post # 1
My SO occassionally comments that he would like a picture of me doing, ahem, something. Or he’d like a picture of this exact angle. He doesn’t really like porn and would prefer a picture of me to admire when I’m not around.
I’ve never been an exhibitionist of any sort, but for someone reason I’m really considering it (tho, I would need to make sure I look as close to perfect as possible, of course). I trust him explicitly so I’m not that concerned that my BJ face is going to be floating out there one day…
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
We’ve taken a lot more than one! We actually did a photoshoot with a friend of ours a long time ago. I am also planning (at some point) to do a professional photoshoot with some of my favorite lingerie as a gift for him.
Post # 4
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
Not in this relationship, but I did with my ex-h (I think while we were dating or engaged). I don’t really have a problem with it, but my husband isn’t interested in taking those kinds of photos of me and he doesn’t want me to take them of him.
Post # 5
It has never come up and I honestly don’t know if I would want to.
Post # 6
@juliette.eliza: whoa, really? naked pics with a friend???? i must be uptight… 🙂
Post # 7
- Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California
I have before, but it’s happened like twice in our 3 & a half year relationship. One was when he was out of town for a week. We were just texting, then one thing lead to another.. The other he actually took while I was getting dressed one day & just messing around. Nothing super raunchy.
I trust him though & in a sense it’s kind of flattering that he wants a picture of *me* versus the porn stars from time to time ;]
Post # 8
I made a video with an ex, I was 19 & stupid. Now I’m just waiting for every VCR to be destroyed. I will never be president.
Post # 9
Haha I have sent pictures of me in various states of undress to DH while he is out of town, but not so much pictures of the actual ACT being performed. Too many sex tapes finding their way to the internet these days
Post # 10
I did a boudoir shoot and gave him a book, which he looooved. I wouldn’t let him take his own pics mostly bc i’m not thrilled w/ my body and even though HE may love the pictures i think i’d be too critical of myself. Although if he wanted new (professional) boudoir shots at some point I’d gladly do that again. a professional photographer, good lighting, and photoshop make a wooorld of difference 🙂
Post # 11
No, I haven’t. If something were ever to happen with me and FI, and he would be so evil as to put those photos online, I would be mortified. There’s just too much risk nowadays. Am I being paranoid, yes, but its better to be safe than sorry.
I am however giving FI a little black book of boudoirs. Unless he took the time to scan them online, there’s not a whole lot of risk to it.
Post # 12
he definitely would LOVE a boudoir shoot, but he’s looking for something a bit more graphic. somehow i’m more nervous about the idea of a shoot (states of undress in front of strangers!) than a hot bj shot or an ass shot from his favorite angle…
Post # 13
He hasn’t taken any of me (although I’d let him), but I did a DIY boudoir shot for him (with some full-on nudes).
Post # 14
We have but we immediately erase them after we look at them.
The worst was a friend of mine were out having a night on the town and she was snapping a bunch of pics of all of us. Well she goes to the bathroom so the girls and I decide to look at our goofy pics on her digital camera, well we click just one too many and my eyes started bleeding b/c it was her & her BF in compromising positions!! We never told her we saw them, but that image haunts me.
Post # 15
It’s never come up but I’ve definitely considered doing a Boudior shoot someday. So I guess that means I’m okay with it.
Post # 16
I have with my SO only tho. No ex’s thank god ( My last long term bf before my now SO would have spread them EVERYWHERE) My SO keeps them for a while and then delets them. I trust him with everything so I know he would neverr! And I will do a boudior shot when we get engaged and give it to him the night before the wedding = )