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have you ever REALLY worn a bridesmaid dress again?

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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    I want to choose bridesmaids dresses my girls will wear again, but is this in vain? Have you ever really re-worn a bridesmaid dress?

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    I haven't, only because I've never been a bridesmaid.  However, I'm quite sure that the MOHs at both my weddings wore their dresses again.  In each instance, there were no other female attendants to match, so I just told them to find a dress that they looked good in.

     
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    QueenBecca037    04.05.09   Atlanta, GA

    I wore one once out to a fancy dinner.  My husband really liked the dress on me, and although I was just eh about it, I figured if he liked it, I'd wear it :)

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    Honestly....nope. Mainly b/c they were in colors I normally wouldn't wear in my every day life. I am the MOH in my sister's wedding and the dress is a simple yet elegant, floor length, black gown. I am certain I will wear that again.

     
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    Mamasita2004    February 12, 2011   Texas

    I've never been able to wear one again.  That being said, I'm hoping my bridesmaids will actually be able to pull out their outfits again.  We are having a casual/vintage wedding, and the bridesmaids will be wearing black pencil skirts of their choice with a white chic/elegant white top of their choice.  I sent them these pictures as inspiration.  They have done a really great job at picking out outfits so far!

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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    Yes! But the bride only picked out the color and the length of the dress so I picked out a dress which I knew I would wear again.  One of my other BM dresses is hanging in the back of my closet, never to be seen again.

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    I've only been a BM once, and while the dress is lovely, I seriously doubt I'll ever wear it again, purely because it feels so "Bridesmaidy" to me. I can't imagine an occasion where I'll be requiring a dress like that.

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    jamiemichelle    October 16, 2010   North Carolina

    no personally...

    But I picked these http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Short-Charmeuse-Dress-with-Ruched-Waist-and-Pockets-83707_Bridal-Party-Features-Most-Popular-Bridesmaids

    in lilic hoping my girls can re-wear them. I would totally rock the dress to a cocktail party personally..

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    I've been a bridesmaid twice and both dresses were in pastel colors (light blue and baby pink) and floor length. Both are at a Goodwill somewhere.

     
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    FutureMrsMc    June 18, 2011  

    Sadly not, but all of the dresses have been floor-length.  If they were tea-length, I'd be more likely to rewear.  Good luck!

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I did.  I was in HS and liked dressing like a hippie, so I re-wore a dress from a renaissance wedding.  It was made just for me by a seamstress.  It was amazing!

     
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    jedeve    August 14, 2010   Montana

    @jamiemichelle: My sister actually is wearing that dress for her friends wedding, and she actually liked it so much she wore it before the wedding. I think hers was in lapis.

     
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    fitzly      

    I have actually borrowed friends' BM dresses to wear to other weddings. I think the key is short and not a typical bridesmaid-y material, like satin.

     
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    FutureMrsMc    June 18, 2011  

    @abbyful we're date twins! :)

     
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    EvaBostonTerrier    July 3, 2010  

    I hope my BM's can wear their dresses again, but if not, I understand :-)  

     

    My crazy sister (MOH) and brother...

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    MaggieGirl    October 16, 2010  

    My bridesmaids are wearing ann taylor bridesmaids dresses.  I'm pretty sure they'll be able to wear them again.  My maid of honor has said she actually plans on wearing the dress again a month later as a guest at someone else's formal wedding.

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    My maid of honor picked her own dress, and it's a classic J. Crew design that I think/know she'll wear again.

    I've only been in one wedding, and the bride picked the dress. It was a color and cut that I wouldn't wear again because it wasn't flattering at all.

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    nope!  i have 4 dresses just sitting in the closet. 

    i am however letting my bm's reuse the dresses we bought for our friends wedding last year so they will get to wear them again... as bm's.  does that count?  =)  i'm not that picky, the dresses look good and are the right color, so why not save them some $.

     
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    ashleykaye15    January 8, 2011   Louisiana

    yes for a school assignment it was extra credit if you dressed up for it my presentation was on the tower of london *i'm in tourism we do strange stuff*

    i wore it as anne bolyn very funny

     
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    KatieMK    July 21, 2012  

    I have a J Crew dress I've worn like four times after the wedding. The other two just scream BRIDESMAID to me and thus I cannot wear them again..

     
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    missmouse29    July 2011   NWOntario, Canada

    Nope.

    And it's funny because all I ever heard was "oh and it's so great because you'll be able to wear it again!" when the whole time I was thinking "yeah right!"

    Not a huge deal, I was able to donate a dress in the past, so perhaps someone was able to wear it. I'm planning on either selling or upcycling the others I have, as they are definitely not something I would ever be able to  wear again, unless I just so happened to be in a wedding party requiring that colour/style of dress. (not very likely).

    Total waste.

     

     
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    SaraRocks    October 16, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    The only wedding I've been in we bought black cocktail dresses, which I have worn again as part of a Halloween costume (I was Audrey Hepburn, not something crazy). I think people think you can wear them when you go to all sorts of fancy parties, but really, who does that?

     
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    Monny    August 21, 2010  

    I've never rewore the bridesmaid dress that I wore at a friend's wedding, but I think my girls will definately be able to. They are wearing this Alfred Sung dress in black and will have it shortened to above the knee.

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    MrsWoohoo    01/02/09   Bay Area, CA

    I've only worn 1 out of the 3 so far, and it was the dress that was not bought from a "BM" section. The last wedding I was in, we wore dresses from the J.Crew line so maybe I'll wear it again by toning it down with a cardigan?

     
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    almostarolax    July 10, 2011   Michigan

    Yea defiantly not. I think if you want ur BMs to wear it again it really cant be a bridesmaid dress bc thats exactly what it is.... A BRIDESMAID DRESS.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    My BM wanted to wear the dresses I picked to other weddings before mine, so I am happy I picked a good one.

     
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    Laura27       Oklahoma

    I've only been a bridesmaid once and it was for my brothers wedding...and let's just say I didn't even want to wear it then.  My sis-in-law picked them out without even asking us what we thought and I guess she found them at a bargain because she paid for them...which was really nice.  But it would've been nicer if she would have considered that a petite size doesn't fit well on someone's who is 5'11.

     
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    Ms. MoxieMonkey       Los Angeles

    Nope.  I've been a bridesmaid 8 times. Yes, that's right. 8 times.

    I never re-wore any of the dresses.  I donated them to a theatre I was working at - for the costume shop.  I think they've been used over the years. :-)

     

     
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    belledowdy    August 14, 2010   Vermont

    I was concerned about this until my MOH (love her!) told me to stop worrying about it. I told them "blue dress, cocktail length" and they picked out what they wanted (I was extremely budget conscious and didn't want to burden them with an expensive dress they didn't care for, and I figured they would be able to pick a dress that looked good and was their style better than me). My MOH said she keeps her BM dresses and some she's worn again, others not but she's had a great time in all of them!

     
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    sahsabahs    June 2011  

    I've been in 4, never worn any of the dresses again.  But 2 are very bridesmaidy, one is very not-my-style and the last is bright orange.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    no. one is too bridesmaidy, and the other is too fancy. i had my girls pick out their own dresses in hopes that they'll be worn again.

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    I think the biggest thing is having a fabric that doesn't look like a BM dress and one that you could shorten (if its not already short).  

    My sister just cut her BM dress off and wore it to another wedding last night.  Hopefully she'll send me pictures today.  This was the original dress.  

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    hergreenapples    October 23, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    Yes, I have. I was my MOH's MOH last year and I was the only attendant on her side, so I got to choose a dress that I liked at that suited me 100%. The colour works well any time of the year, so it's great for Christmas/New Year's parties and also works for other weddings without screaming "this is a bridesmaid dress!"have you ever REALLY worn a bridesmaid dress again? :  wedding Bridesmaid Dress

     

     
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    sboston06    October 10, 2010   Boston area

    This is the dress my SIL picked out for her Vegas wedding.  I wore it again to another wedding a few months later.  It's a flattering style and a good color on me so I will deifnitely wear it again.

    I sold another bridesmaid dress on ebay, and another is sitting in my Nana's attic.  The dresses for my wedding are black and floor-length so hopefully they can wear them again someday, but at least I hope they sell them and recoup some of the cost.

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    tritaratops    July 30, 2011  

    I've only been a bridesmaid once, and there is no way I would wear that floor length eggplant number again. Again, if it was shorter and a more wearable color (black, silver, maybe even chocolate brown), I may have been able to.

    However, the bride's sister was quite a bit younger than us, and was able to wear it to her senior prom the next year - Ha!

     
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    Miss BooBoo    November 5, 2010   Pittsburgh, PA, DW in Punta Cuna

    Yes, but only 1 because it was a JCrew dress. I wore it to another wedding, and am planning on wearing it again when we get legally married at the court house. That being said, there are plenty of b-maid dresses that I've gotten rid of immediately following the wedding. It really depends on the dress. Some are made just to be bridesmaid dresses.

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    I've been a bridesmaid 2 times and both dresses I've never worn again.

     
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    BostonBaby    January 2012   MA

    No. The dress I had to wear was a DB floor-length heavy polyester number, immediately recognizable because of its style and not the most flattering shape. Even shortened people would know it was a BM dress, so it sits in my closet collecting dust until I donate it.

     
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    AnamCara    April 10, 2010   Ireland/Connecticut

    I've been in a few weddings and I've never worn the dress again.  I'm one of the few people I know who actually has use for dressy dresses - DH is in the military and we have a Summer Ball and Christmas Ball every year.  On the other hand I have re-worn my long black senior prom dress for years...I graduated in 1995 and I've worn it in the past year or two! 

     
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    sweetkischa    September 26, 2010   MA

    I've reworn one dress to a formal x-mas party.  But I picked that one out and it wasn't a bm dress.  The second and third were never reworn, by me anyway, but all have been donated, so hopefully someone got some use out of them.

     

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