(Closed) have you ever thought about ….???

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
370 posts
Helper bee

i don’t know if i could handle a secret ultimadum. I have been upfront with my bf and told him i’d like a proposal no later than october this year. we are almost in our mid 30’s, been together 2.4 yrs and i’m not going to lie or hide what i want or expect for myself and want for my future. if he loves me and truely wants me to be his wife he will act on it. i don’t beleive anyone can force another person to marry them but sometimes you need to assist a man to make a choice one way or another.

Post # 4
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529 posts
Busy bee

I don’t know if I could actually leave SO either and there are times that I think he will never propose but my life with him in it is way better than life without him would be even with its challenges. Interestingly I mentioned the girls on here who have secret deadlines for leaving to SO the other night and he said that the women clearly didn’t love them if they could leave because of no proposal. Well that ticked me right off and I pointed out that men who drive their women to the point of leaving after years of no proposal might deserve what they have coming to them. We ended up agreeing that there are two sides to every story but there you have one mans opinion lol! 

Post # 5
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700 posts
Busy bee

We are in it for the long haul, kudos to those strong enough to walk away. Marriage or no, we’re staying side by side til we die. ^-^ I’d love a wedding/marriage but i’m ok if we never tie the knot

 

Post # 6
Member
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

A few of us on here wouldn’t walk away so to say but choose that time to have a serious talk with our significant others. I’m definately not going to walk away at all – my SO is the one for me, I love him with all of my heart. But the year thing is more that if it gets to be that time after we’ve talked about where we both stand numerous times and false hope, that would be the time for me to be like ” Well, maybe I should give you some space for a month to see you if you truly want this” etc.  That’s all πŸ™‚

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