Have you fallen out of love with your engagement ring?

posted 2 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Cape May

toastess:  No worries. As long as your FI is on the same page as you are then replace or upgrade your ring. I certainly did reset my ering before the wedding and FI had no issues with it.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1987

Just stop looking at Weddingbee and other similar sites and your engagement ring will start to look good again. 

 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

I do not have experience with this- but maybe he’d be down for a new bridal set (with ering) for the wedding? And the heart could go on the right hand. Or just get a fancy detailed blingy wedding band and maybe upgrade the ering for an anniversary.

Unrelated i am slightly obsessed with 1/2 carat heart bezels- I just bought a CZ rose gold version but I want a diamond one some day. You could always commit to loving your ring!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

toastess:  Can we see? I have a bezel set heart and I think the look is REALLY unique! So cool that you have an heirloom set the same way with a heart diamond??!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I haven’t fallen out of love with me ring but that might be because it was one of the rings I had shown to Mr. Trilly as examples of rings that I like.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Temple Beth Am/Love is Blind

I think it happens, but I also think if you look at it through the right lens you will fall right back in love with it, especially if you make it more you with the band you choose.  However, if you really don’t like and your fiance is on the same page, maybe you can look for something different together? BTW, can we seet it?

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

If you want to get a new one that’s fine, but do you think it’s possible that if you got a new ring you could eventually fall out of love with that one as well? You said in the beginning you adored the ring.. could it happen again?

Maybe once paired with a wedding band you would feel differently?

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

toastess:  Can you post a pic of your ring, as well as the one you want? 

I also have a heart shaped ring. I am fortunate that I really love it, but it is one of those cuts that you kind of have to be sold out to. I am actually thinking of resetting mine into a bezel, so I would love to see yours 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

Personally I can see why you wouldn’t love that ring, as it’s lovely but kind of something a younger kid would wear? (no offence!!!)

I was going to write this whole thing about how people start feeling differently about their rings after they see all the glam bedazzled embellished monster rings that are on this site sometimes or on peoples hands. So you get envious as people do, then you just need to realize “wait, that’s not MY style, I don’t want that!” and you start to get normal again. 

But now that I’ve seen your ring, I understand how you feel. Perhaps keep that ring as an occasional and purchase something you’d actually wear everyday. I have an heirloom ring as well, but it’s my style and classic so I love it.

Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I know how you feel. I think fancy cuts can have that effect if you wear them everyday – they are beautiful but very specific and you’ve been looking at it for a long time now… That’s a lovely ring, but if your falling out with it I’d wear it as a right hand ring and get a new ering… When you see it less often each time you put it on you will have that warm feeling inside… 

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