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Have you gotten jealous?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional

Bee

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Honey bee

mrbee March 5, 2005 New York City, New York

I don't think I've ever gotten jealous of somebody else... except this one time when Sparky the cat was really sick with cancer and required constant care, I did have a pang of jealousy. TOWARDS OUR CAT! How sad is that. I thought less of myself after that, and encourage you to as well.

Anyway Bee nursed Sparky back to health, and now we are one happy family again!

Have you ever gotten jealous in your current relationship - of another person, an animal, a video game, the Internet... anything? Please share!

2 years ago

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Bumble bee

august15bride August 15, 2009 St. Petersburg, FL

I think my FI is jealous of Weddingbee. :)

2 years ago

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Bumble
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Mrs. DG July 18, 2009 Seattle/Tahoe

Ditto August!

My default is definitely not towards jealousy in general though!

2 years ago

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Sugar bee

penguin June 7, 2008 Berkeley, Ca

I am jealous every day, every moment of my life. It's one of my greatest downfalls. I downplay it a lot but I don't even like girls anywhere in Mr. Peng's stratosphere! It is horrible. He doesn't like the company of women much (a guy's guy... also why I was attracted to him... I could never stand dating a ladies man!) but I even get jealous of the women he works with, and it's not like he even sits around and raves about them (usually he's complaining!).

Bad. I'm a super jealous person!!!

2 years ago

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Helper bee

lilneko69 August 2, 2008! New York, NY

haha For awhile, DH was jealous of Weddingbee too! But I'm like, you decide to start playing on the PS3 first! So now we decided to take a healthier approach and spend time doing things together.

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2 years ago

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tessabella76 September 12, 2009 Ohio

I did have a moment last summer. We had only been dating about 6 months. I was working retail and I had to do inventory after hours. That night, he went out with a bunch of friends, text me at 5 am that he was cooking food for everyone at the bar (bar owner is a friend), and they had all gone for a night boat ride, which is one of my favorite things to do. So I was jealous because I had to work and I was missing out on the fun. But then one of his friends told me that all he talked about that night was me, so I felt a little better!

2 years ago

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bellenga July 31, 2010 Georgia

Only once. He had this wierd xgirlfriend from high school (she lives up north) and she was "friends" with him off/on since calling and giving the lifestyle updates (having kids, getting married, what are you doing now generalized crap).

Well about six months into dating, she called him out of the blue again (she is married btw) and had been apparently having one or two more than she should have, glasses of vino. He told her he'd met this girl and was in love and that this was IT..that I was the ONE.

What did the woman do? Instead of saying she was happy she said that he should "hold off for a while" and then after a few slurred sentences professed her undying love..UNDYING LOVE...for him and said marrying her H was a mistake and that she couldn't believe she had a child with her H. (she has a 1 year old). She then told him that he should FLY HER TO NYC and get this bees...TAKE HER ON A SHOPPING SPREE.

I was LIVID. Grrr. I said he was no longer allowed to speak to her but if she ever called again, I was speaking to her! He said no worries. He told her that she'd drank too much, had no business saying such things, that he is happy with me, and that she should work on being happy at home . After her stunt (they have been friends for over 20 years btw) she has NEVER called back. Not even the obligatory Christmas call, or Happy Birthday call you'd expect from a friend either.

I was a tad jealous. More mad than anything because I hate this new attitude some have of disrespecting a committment/vow.