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posted 11 months ago in Home
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    OfficeBride    2010  

    ..that when you've announced you've bought a house, there are two different kinds of responses?

    (1) "Congratulations" (Which is great)

    or (2) "Now you're stuck with a mortgage for life." (Um, thanks for 411)

    LOL

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    @OfficeBride: yup... totally noticed the extremes. Also, when we started doing maintenance things around the house... we started to hear "it'll never end..." a lot.

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    @OfficeBride: I hear you! I also like the "welcome to poverty" comments!

     
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    hibiscusgirl    July 23, 2011   Seattle

    @OfficeBride: Yes! Or the references that you'll never get to go out and do things because you'll be stuck every weekend cleaning the yard or doing maintenance. 

     
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    OfficeBride    2010  

    LOL...glad I'm not alone.  Geez, why are some people such a buzz kill?!

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    Luckily we've only gotten the congratulations. Although my husband already owned before this one...

     
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    coffeegal85    August 11, 2012   Ohio

    @OfficeBride:Yup, yup.  If it is really "welcome to poverty," how can so many people have houses?

    I'm guilty of saying both congrats and talking about how much work a house is.  I was recently a first time homebuyer and never realized how much work and time is involved; I'm trying to be helpful with my "real" comments, not hurtful. 

     
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    BrianneG    June 5, 2010   Redondo Beach, CA

    Actually, the response we get is "so when are you having kids?"

     
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    FutureMrsBPB    October 1, 2011   Maryland

    Every time that my fiance and I get the "good luck with the mortgage" line, we always remind them that at least we're not paying thousands of dollars per month to rent a 1 br 1 ba apartment that we'll never own.  Smile

     
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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    @missjyc:

    hahaha. I actually find it annoying when people who just bought a home try to tell ME the perils of home ownership. Hahha. I just want to say um...we have had our own home for 7 years now and you....6 months. I know stuff breaks and the work is never ending.But thanks for letting me know! :D

    And yes, it's forever, because it's something you own not rent. It's call being an adult and having responsibilities! :)

     
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    SportsGal    August 11, 2012   Vancouver, BC

    Or (3) Now you get to see what being a homeowner is all about!  haha

    So like all the upkeep and maintenance..  Money that goes into a house.. gardening..  Mowing the lawn..  Definitely not cheap and easy!

     

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