- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
My fiance and I are getting married in 3 1/2 months and I have an out of town bridesmaid who I’ve texted once a week over the last 3 weeks and she has not responded. She has a lot going on, her husband just left for Afghanistan for the next 7 months. She told me before he left that she’d honored to be in the wedding but is waiting to buy a dress as they were trying to get pregnant. That was almost 2 months ago. I want to be sensitive her so all I have texted is how are you doing… things like that. No word of the wedding. She has always responded that day or a day later up until a few weeks ago.
It’s a 2 month wait for the dresses to be made and the wait can get longer everyday. So she needs to order it or let me know if she is not up for being in the wedding.
Anyway.. how do I find out if she really wants to be in the wedding, and ask when she is going to get her dress. I understand her wanting to wait in case they did get pregnant because she’ll need a bigger size as she told me she might. I don’t want to be insensitive because I know she’s having a hard time.. but I also to watch out for myself in and find out.