(Closed) Having a hard time lately

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ugh.. I’m so sorry you’re havin a hard time, babez.  I totally understand that you have your hopes up for this upcoming weekend.. that’s sooo cute that you two have the same birthday AND it’s the day before V-Day.  It totally seems like the perfect weekend to pop the question.  I’m also hoping for a V-Day proposal because we’ll be on vaca that week in the Caribbean and it would just be too perfect.

I don’t have any advice really to make it easier, because i’m trying to not get my hopes too high over here myself… Mr. Foxxy is a quirky one.. so I keep telling myself that he’s probably not going to do it BECAUSE it seems like the perfect time….  He’d rather wait till a totally nonromantic moment when I look and/or feel like a hot mess THEN bust out a ring.  LoL…. but I’m hoping and wishing really hard for both of us!!!  :o)

Post # 4
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1088 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry you’ve been having a hard time lately. 

Is there any way you could ask him for reassurance about the wanting to get married part?  It’s always comforting for me to hear Mr. Chic remind me that we are going get married.  It also helps when we openly discuss around when we see that happening. 

Recently, I’ve decided to change career paths which will keep us geographically separated for about 2-3 years.  That TOTALLY blew our whole timeline, but we’ve talked about it, and we’re both ok with it.  For me, knowing that it will in fact happen, and around when it will happen is (on most days, anyway) enough to keep me from blowing a fuse.  🙂

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