Having a hard waiting day….

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

@ChristineMarie5711:  awww well maybe your scare made him think about things too! I would reiterate to him how important marriage is to you, and tell him that you’re counting on him following through his “this year”.

I know its hard to wait but “this year” is a pretty hopeful response! 

Post # 4
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419 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

WOW! That does sound like an emotionally draining week! A week like that sounds like good reason to be emotional. It might be time to double up on the methods, BC & condoms. Condoms are less fun (personal opinion, I have an IUD), but better safe than sorry. 

It also sounds like you might need to take a little time to focus on what makes you happy. Don’t compare your self to your siblings. Sure, you are siblings, but they are not you and you are not them… If you aren’t worring about it or making it a talking point, it will be less fun for others to talk about it.

Personally, I am able to be in a pretty good, pre-engaged stage by having a timeline talk then just focusing on spending time with my SO and doing things together. It makes like much more enjoyabe. Best of luck to you!

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