Post # 1
Do you ever have a moment when you just want to scream “IF YOU LOVE ME SO MUCH AND WANT TO MARRY ME, WHY DON’T YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT?”
I’m having one right now. I know he loves me and I know we’re going to get married. I’m even pretty sure that we will be getting engaged in the near future or at least before summer. But what I don’t know is why he can’t get the ball moving.
Post # 3
be patience…. don’t rush anything, the time will come. It will feel good when you least expected. 🙂
Post # 4
I have had PLENTY of those moments
take deep breaths and do something nice for youself to calm down/
Post # 5
My boyfriend always says “Are you going to marry me?” – ya know in that sweet way and I refuse to say yes – I just say “If you ever ask me” 😀 Not the same as yelling at him to do something about it – but defiantly puts it out there! Good luck and hang in there!
Post # 6
Yes, all the time! on a daily basis! makes me feel like crap that he can’t just do it already. and then people say to me.. ‘why do you think he hasn’t done it yet’.. oh I don’t know maybe he just doesn’t love me enough! ha. I know we will be engaged soon but every week feels like a year when you are waiting xx
Post # 7
There are times where I think “You know, I am a beautiful, smart, fun, kind woman. You would be lucky to have me buddy!” LOL. I do get a little resentful about the waiting. To an extent I think it is romantic and sweet. Still, there is a part of me that thinks “Why am I the only one who seems super excietd about marriage? Why am I the only one chomping at the bit to put a ring on it?” I KNOW my bf loves me and I know he would be devastated if he lost me. However, I also know that he isn’t on some message board right now agnonizing about when he will get to marry me! I guess men just are built differently.
Post # 8
Yes somtimes I do…and I have strong desires to throw and smash plates at the same time. But then I take a deep breath and tell myself it’s coming! Hang in there – it will happen!
@jackndiane: I like your post – it describes exactly how I feel!
Post # 9
All the time. I love the quote from When Harry Met Sally, “When you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”
Sometimes I just want to grab him by the shoulders and give him a little shake, and then in an Arnold Schwarzenegger voice say, “What are you waiting for?! Do it! Do it now!!”
I refrain myself though, because I believe that would have a reverse effect on my situation. 😉
Post # 10
@jackndiane: That’s very much how I feel too, except sometimes I start to doubt the relationship too. I’m a great catch, we’ve been together for years, basically live as husband and wife, yet he doesn’t seem particuarly interested or excited to get married. What’s the deal? I know he doesn’t want to break up and that he loves me a ton, but what’s the issue if all these things are true? Is it just a guy thing? That some guys just aren’t going to be excited/gung-ho about getting married?
Post # 11
@jackndiane: I agree completely with what you said.
@Amydee: I LOVE that quote. My SO and I actually watched that movie semi recently (He’d never seen it, WTF?). He got all mushy at that part and it took EVERYTHING I have not to just be like “Then what are you waiting for???” Somehow I resisted the urge and didn’t spoil the moment.
@Taylor4: The whole lving like husband and wife situation really gets to me sometimes. If we are already living like we’re married, here’s a crazy idea: Let’s get married!!! Ahhh, maybe he’s starting to see the light.
P.S. How do I do the names the right way? I’m bee-yond confused.