(Closed) having a wobble

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7870 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i do not have the wobbles.  a few times when I am getting ready for work in the morning i think is this who i want to spend the rest of my life with and then I look at my still sleeping FI and know that i did.

wedding planning is stressful but i feel it is definately worth it.

you say you love him so much, do you want to spend the rest of your life with him?  if the answer is yes, then you are doing the right thing.  if the answer is no or not sure, then you need to rethink about life.

Post # 4
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I didn’t doubt marrying DH, but I DID have moments of “Oh my gosh, this is a BIG DEAL, you are making a BIG COMMITMENT, remember how much WORK this is going to be.” It didn’t worry me, because I think it was a realistic approach – planning the wedding is fun and pretty and a party, but I was glad my brain was keeping it in check about what I was really committing to.

That said, we went through extensive pre-marital preparation – both a 13 week class and 6 sessions with a professional counselor. We didn’t have any problems, we just wanted to make sure we had covered all the bases, and it couldn’t hurt.

With your wedding as far off as it is, I’d say now is a perfect time to do some pre-marital counseling/prep courses/etc. That should give you some clarity on if you’re worried about marrying HIM or just sort of in awe of the big lifetime commitment you’re taking on.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

I have not had any doubts with my FI, I know we are perfect together. I did feel a bit “wobbly” before I married my first husband, though, and look how that turned out. I’d say it really depends on how big your doubts are, and my advice is to really think about that before you marry him. Divorce is no fun.

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