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I have dreams like this pretty often actually! I always wake up feeling so guilty and upset, it's so irrational. No idea on how to stop it :(
Frequently 
But seriously, it's just a dream and doesn't represent what/how I'd react in real life. Plus sometimes I'm like "ew, why them?!"
Glad to know I'm not alone! Do you think maybe it's a "omg I'm getting married/only sleeping with one man for the rest of my life" pre-wedding subconscious thing?
Sometimes, and always with people that i would not seriously consider in real life!
Last night I had two weird dreams. One of them was that I let this guy kiss me and I didn't stop him and then people were telling me to tell my FH. I felt so guilty and luckily I woke up.
Then I went back to sleep and had a dream that I slept with this other guy who I don't know in real life (FH was not in the picture in this dream) and then he told me that he had HIV. I was freaking out and then luckily woke up! It was terrible.
I have dreams like this quite often and frankly, I don't care! It's just a dream!
First of all it WOULD be dream if WB was back to normal. Lol Secondly, these dreams don't mean anything. It could just be repressed sexual urges or it could be unrelated to sex, maybe a situation you shouldn't be involved in. I once dreamed that a guy proposed to me and I was like, "wait a minute, it so happens that I already AM married." Anyway, totally normal:)
Aw, man, so jealous! I would LOVE to be having vivid dreams about other people! In my dreams, I turn the other guy down because I don't want to cheat on my partner. Then I wake up and I'm like, "That was just a dream? Oh no! That means I turned down hot sex for no good reason!"
Monogamy doesn't mean you don't want to sleep with anyone else, it's means you're choosing not to. Having dreams about other people is totally normal, as is fantasizing about sex with people who aren't your husband. Your erotic imagination doesn't shut down just because you get married.
@PutABirdOnIt: Haha yeah no joke. Hmm that's an interesting perspective, something I shouldn't be involved in.. I'll have to think about that!
@sarasouth: LOL! I think it's weird that I didn't "turn them down" but that I didn't fully have the sexual part of the dream, like I said it cuts out like a PG movie... which I think is kind of hilarious. You make a good point though. I think maybe if these dreams happened with nameless people I don't actually know IRL I might actually want to experience some fantasies in my dreams! But since they are people I do know, it just feels somewhat cheat-y/icky/guilty.
Glad I'm not alone on this! I was starting to feel guilty even though they were just dreams.
I had a dream the other night where a friend wanted to have sex with me but I stopped her because I didn't want to cause any problems with my FI. After I woke up and realized it was a dream I got pretty angry at myself.
When it happens, which is pretty regularly, I quite enjoy them. It's natural.
@littlemissmango: I have them at least once a week... I find it kind of fun... lol I'd never cheat but the idea of being sneaky is just strangly fun. I'm a terrible person.
This has been happening to me lately too! In fact, I had a dream last night that I was cheating with Edward Cullen. Lol
This has been happening to me lately too! In fact, I had a dream last night that I was cheating with Edward Cullen. Lol
This has been happening to me lately too! In fact, I had a dream last night that I was cheating with Edward Cullen. Lol
This has been happening to me lately too! In fact, I had a dream last night that I was cheating with Edward Cullen. Lol
@Tswife4ever: I think it's funnier to imagine that you've had Edward Cullen sex dreams for four nights in a row. Either that or four different dreams over the course of the same night that you felt the need to mention four separate times. Regardless, once it gets to five dreams in a row, maybe it's time to stop reading so much Twilight.
When I was first pregnant I seriously had a sex dream about every single one of my exes, and even little middle school crushes and people I didn't date. I read somewhere that it symbolizes your mind "clearing" out your past and making room for your future...
Made me feel less guilty about it! :)
Okay, no lie - I had one about Johnny Depp last night - As "Captain Jack Sparrow". I feel shame ;-)
i've had them every once in a while. Usually with people who I've never met before, no one I recognize. So I usually wake up all like wtf. Sometimes I'm still with my FI, other times, he's non-existant.
So bizarre, but yea, totally normal.
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UGH!! I keep having dreams where I am with other guys.... what gives???
Last night it was where I was dating (and sleeping with) this guy I used to be friends with, AND cheating on him with my ex. FI was not in the picture whatsoever. It was SO bizarre. The dreams aren't terribly graphic, actually it's kind of funny, I get into bed with them and it's like implied that I'm sleeping with them and then my dream cuts out to something else, like in a PG rated sex scene. LOL. But still!! I am whoring it up in my dreams!
I woke up feeling so icky. I went out to find FI to give him a big hug and tell him I love him.
Do nasty dreams like this ever happen to you guys?? Any tips on how to make it STOP!? Or any dream decoders out there want to psychoanalyze me? haha.
(oh, also in my dream the WB server was fixed and everything was back to normal. LOL!!!)