Post # 1
UGH!! I keep having dreams where I am with other guys…. what gives???
Last night it was where I was dating (and sleeping with) this guy I used to be friends with, AND cheating on him with my ex. Fiance was not in the picture whatsoever. It was SO bizarre. The dreams aren’t terribly graphic, actually it’s kind of funny, I get into bed with them and it’s like implied that I’m sleeping with them and then my dream cuts out to something else, like in a PG rated sex scene. LOL. But still!! I am whoring it up in my dreams!
I woke up feeling so icky. I went out to find Fiance to give him a big hug and tell him I love him.
Do nasty dreams like this ever happen to you guys?? Any tips on how to make it STOP!? Or any dream decoders out there want to psychoanalyze me? haha.
(oh, also in my dream the WB server was fixed and everything was back to normal. LOL!!!)
Post # 3
I have dreams like this pretty often actually! I always wake up feeling so guilty and upset, it’s so irrational. No idea on how to stop it 🙁
Post # 4
Frequently But seriously, it’s just a dream and doesn’t represent what/how I’d react in real life. Plus sometimes I’m like “ew, why them?!”
Post # 5
Glad to know I’m not alone! Do you think maybe it’s a “omg I’m getting married/only sleeping with one man for the rest of my life” pre-wedding subconscious thing?
Post # 6
Sometimes, and always with people that i would not seriously consider in real life!
Post # 7
Last night I had two weird dreams. One of them was that I let this guy kiss me and I didn’t stop him and then people were telling me to tell my FH. I felt so guilty and luckily I woke up.
Then I went back to sleep and had a dream that I slept with this other guy who I don’t know in real life (FH was not in the picture in this dream) and then he told me that he had HIV. I was freaking out and then luckily woke up! It was terrible.
Post # 8
I have dreams like this quite often and frankly, I don’t care! It’s just a dream!
Post # 9
First of all it WOULD be dream if WB was back to normal. Lol Secondly, these dreams don’t mean anything. It could just be repressed sexual urges or it could be unrelated to sex, maybe a situation you shouldn’t be involved in. I once dreamed that a guy proposed to me and I was like, “wait a minute, it so happens that I already AM married.” Anyway, totally normal:)
Post # 10
Aw, man, so jealous! I would LOVE to be having vivid dreams about other people! In my dreams, I turn the other guy down because I don’t want to cheat on my partner. Then I wake up and I’m like, “That was just a dream? Oh no! That means I turned down hot sex for no good reason!”
Monogamy doesn’t mean you don’t want to sleep with anyone else, it’s means you’re choosing not to. Having dreams about other people is totally normal, as is fantasizing about sex with people who aren’t your husband. Your erotic imagination doesn’t shut down just because you get married.
Post # 11
@PutABirdOnIt: Haha yeah no joke. Hmm that’s an interesting perspective, something I shouldn’t be involved in.. I’ll have to think about that!
@sarasouth: LOL! I think it’s weird that I didn’t “turn them down” but that I didn’t fully have the sexual part of the dream, like I said it cuts out like a PG movie… which I think is kind of hilarious. You make a good point though. I think maybe if these dreams happened with nameless people I don’t actually know IRL I might actually want to experience some fantasies in my dreams! But since they are people I do know, it just feels somewhat cheat-y/icky/guilty.
Post # 12
I have them all. the. time. I have no idea why!!!
Post # 13
Glad I’m not alone on this! I was starting to feel guilty even though they were just dreams.
Post # 14
I had a dream the other night where a friend wanted to have sex with me but I stopped her because I didn’t want to cause any problems with my Fiance. After I woke up and realized it was a dream I got pretty angry at myself.
Post # 15
When it happens, which is pretty regularly, I quite enjoy them. It’s natural.
Post # 16
@littlemissmango: I have them at least once a week… I find it kind of fun… lol I’d never cheat but the idea of being sneaky is just strangly fun. I’m a terrible person.