Post # 1
My life is surrounded by weddings right now and it makes it impossible to not think of or talk about marriage. A very close friend of mine is marrying my SO’s brother and my brother is getting married soon. I’m involved in the planning of both (what can I say- events are a niche of mine). And of course my family has started bugging the h*ll out of me about when my SO is going to propose..
I need some advice on how to keep me from talking about it because its not helping at all.
Post # 3
- Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings
Does your b.f know how antsy you are to get engaged? And that this is really difficult for you?
I have no good advice. I have big problems biting my tougne so you arent alone. I just tend to give a heads up when I feel a case of the crazies coming on. Good guys can see past our emotional fits as long as we dont start in on the blaming game and they arent the norm.
personal example of giving him a head up: My baby sister (10 years younger) is pregnant and her and her b.f. will be getting engaged and married before the baby arrives. I caught my man up on their plans during V-Day dinner, and I straight up told him that if by sister gets married before me I was going to have a huge caniption fit. That I knew it was silly but I still would be horribly jealous. He just nodded and said something like, “Yeah, I can see that.”
Post # 4
@Beautiful Bluegrass: He does.. and it bears no weight on him. He said nothing when I told him my bro moved their wedding into the fall (since I want one). He knew I was hurt. I am aweful at biting my tongue. I did pretty good a couple days ago! It was obv though lol. I forget what the topic was but he was like why aren’t you saying anything? And all I said was trust me- its better if I don’t. A friend of mine volunteered to be my contact point and to text her anytime thoughts of marriage and engagement came over me and to leave SO alone.