(Closed) Having second thoughts about sending invitation & already sent out STD

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
7870 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

if you sent her an STD, then you have to send her an invitation.

if you did not send an STD, then I would not invite her to the wedding.

 

Post # 5
Member
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

Make it clear that her sister is not invited.

Since you sent her a STD and pretty much told her she is invited, you’re obligated to invite her now.

Post # 6
Member
3741 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Is your wedding really on July 7? If so, you’ve got to get those invitations out!

Post # 9
Hostess
3005 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

yes, just throw the girl a bone..never been to a wedding before?? Where has she been?

Post # 10
Member
2535 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I think she’s just excited.
Some people get excited in different ways – it throws me off, too.

You’ll send her the invite, she’ll come to your wedding and you’ll be too busy getting married to notice.
Assign someone to keep her under control (nicely, though) if you’re worried she’ll be too much up in your business on your big day.

Post # 11
Member
3736 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Lov3xbella:  How funny! They say you always remember your first!

Post # 13
Member
176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Just remember she might think you guys are friends, even though you dont see her that way she might see you in the way. As long as you can afford adding her, and she’s nice i say why not!?

Besides (not that this is a reason) she might get you an awesome gift! lol 😉

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