Post # 1
I am getting caught up in having to plan the wedding but i am waking up every night wondering if afterwards I will feel regret at marrying my FI. There were a few probably minor issues in the beginning but they haunt me and I am worried about tying the knot and then that’s it.
Do any other bee’s sometimes feel afraid that after getting married, someone else could come along or that in a few years you might feel that way???????
Have wondered a few times if I am being pushed along.
Guess I don’t really know what I feel
Other times it feels just right Gawd am I nuts !!!!!
Post # 3
@b42long: I can probably admit that sometimes I wonder if we’ll lose the excitement, but I can’t say I ever doubted my decision.
Time for some soul searching! Talk it out here! Make sure you focus on why you said yes and why you allowed your relationship to come this far. There are reasons you adore him…things that no one else could fill. THAT is why you are with him…you at some point decided that it’s what you need and want!
Post # 4
@b42long: Yeah, I’d suggest talking to him about it as well. He may also be having second thoughts, and for different reasons…
…And if you talk them out instead of stewing on them, you might come out with a stronger, happier relationship because of it.
My lovely wife and I talk about everything; I don’t hold anything close when I’m concerned over it, and I’m pretty sure she doesn’t either.
*goes to check*
Ok, she says she doesn’t.
And we’re pretty strong.
Post # 5
Thank you Mars62312 and MR_rosworms your comments helped my frazzled mind lol
Yes, I talk to him about everything even my concerns. He doesn’t think it will be in our way and only wants to get married.
I think I tend to look at all sides of an argument and I over analyze then get myself into a tizz.