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I wouldn't pick anyone yet, there's no rush and a lot can change in 18 months.
WAIT. Wait as long as possible, lol. A lot of people have "bridal party regret" especially when they pick too far in advance.
Based on the profiles, all I can say is I wouldn't pick "Amy."
@LGenz: I agree.
When I first became engaged (22 month engagement) I thought I was going to ask a certain friend to be my MOH. But then her responses & actions when I first became engaged made me re-think my choice. I waited and thought on my decision and am so glad I asked my best friend of 12 years to be my MOH.
if you had to choose right now I would pick Katie.. but your wedding is far away so take your time :) you got plenty of it.........
Jasmine's baby will be 2 and a half by then and who knows how much can change in that time? Just wait a while then pick.
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Hello,
I'm having a lot of problems picking who should be my maid of honor. Three girls want to be it and there also very close to me. All them are going to be hurt if there not picked also.
The first girl we'll call Jasmine, she's been my best friend for over 6 years now. She's great and were really great friends. She been taking in to account what I want for the wedding which is great. Problem is she can't drive so it make it difficult for her to get everywhere, she also has a baby who just turned one and the father not there much. So even through she wants to I think it will be difficult for her.
The second is Amy she is nice and has been there for me in the past. I known her as long as I known Jasmine. However, she likes to be the center of attention. She's not engaged and her and her boyfriend(who shes been dating for less than 6 month) dedcided they were going to get married on my wedding date. So she agreed to move it up a week which annoyed me alittle because it would make it very difficult for are mutal friends. She also was sad to not have her wedding date anymore because it was the "perfect date". So I hated feeling guilty so I moved it up a year. She also is more taking into account what she wants but it would really hurt her if she wasn't maid of honor because we always talked about being each others( I thought she would for sure be but now I'm wondering)
The thrid lives Katie lives two hours away but I was stressing and she drove it. I was in her wedding as a bridemaid. She has been there with me for everything with the wedding. She took off work to come and help me look however I known her only two years so it would hurt both Jasmine and Amy a ton if I choose her. She also doesn't really like Amy much.
I'm really confused I need help please I don't want to really hurt anyone.
Thanks