He admitted it!

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I don’t want to sound harsh at all here but you know what? This guy isn’t good for you. He’s not going to marry you but I fear he will continue to make you unhappy. You deserve much better. 

Post # 4
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873 posts
Busy bee

I think that is much too harsh PP. This guy admitted his fears and is going to go to counseling for them, i think that shows a man who really wants to better himself.

Post # 5
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6510 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@WillowTreeWade:  +1 

Give him a chance before freaking out. I think the fact that he suggested counseling is a good thing!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@WillowTreeWade:  I’d refer you to the previous threads about the OP’s FI. I would not normally make such a harsh judgement were there not a considerable backstory. 

Post # 7
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2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MrsWe:  WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH THIS GUY!??????????!!!!!!!!!!!! EVERY POST YOU WRITE ABOUT HIM IS BAD NEWS AND YOU’RE ALWAYS UPSET ABOUT WHAT HE DOES.

Post # 9
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6510 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Surprised

@lina010:  I take back my post! Thanks for pointing me to the history. I didn’t even have to read them because I remember them from the titles.

OP ignore my last post- why are you still with this guy?

Post # 10
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844 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’m actually going to agree with PPs. Judging by your previous threads, this relationship is very on-off and you don’t think all that highly of him – for good reason by the looks of it. Maybe it is time to re-evaluate whether or not you want to be together.

Post # 11
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@ZebraPrintMe:  +1

This guy is clearly wrong for you. He is not making you have a good outlook on life. In a way, he’s… Toxic. One of my good friends was w/ a guy for 6 years. The guy had zero intentions of marrying her yet agreed to go to counseling to “get used to idea of marriage.” Do you think they are together now? No.

Post # 13
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5966 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@MrsWe:  I have to be honest OP, this relationship does not seem fit for marriage. Some relationships are meant to happen so that we can learn and grow from the experience (both the good and the bad) and I feel like you need some of that. This is not someone who seems ready for marriage and really, it’s not someone who seems worthy of being your husband.  Please focus on yourself and consider removing yourself from such an unhealthy relationship.

Post # 14
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1389 posts
Bumble bee

OP you have had waaay too many major disagreements with him and you have only been dating one year!  Your posts from 4 months ago (you were only dating 9 months then) were about him treating you like an assistant and asking you what you offer him.  You really need to walk away.  It shouldn’t be this hard this soon.  

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Sunflower–girl:  +1 

not to mention he sounds like he has zero consideration and respect for you. 

I will never get why women hold on to asshole men. And vice versa

 

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.-Albert Einstein 

Post # 16
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327 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@MrsWe:  did he even propose to you or anything? it is hard when you guys aren’t on the same page. I never get men who say they are afraid of marriage. It simply translates to, “i am afraid of commitment” 

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