- 4 years ago
- Wedding: January 2014
First of all I wasn’t really expecting it would happen but somewhere in the back of my mind I wished it would. I don’t get summer vacation this year because I just started working, but I managed to get 3 days together, one of them my birthday, so we could get a little get away to the beaches in algarve, for those of you who don’t know what that is, here some pics:
Anyway, beautiful sights, the sea water was so perfect, the place where we stayed was lovely with a big pool and no one to use it except us, we went on night walks in the city with beautiful sights of a huge moon above the ocean, ok… this was the most beautiful place I’ve been in years!
The second day we were there it was my birthday and I got a little disapointed, because well my gift was a hand written card, saying something like: sorry I didn’t have time to do anything better.
I’m not materialistic and I didn’t expect a gift or anything, we were already spending some money on this days, but yet… I said I love him and apreciate the gift, and then thats it.
Not anything else.
We when to the beach the next day and dispate the fun we had I couldn’t help to be a little bit disapointed with everything. He couldn’t have picked a more perfect place to propose to me…
The part that pisses me the most is that he talked and talked about other couples in the beach with their kids saying that he couldn’t wait for us to have kids too and take then to the beach. It really makes me sad… if he isn’t ready for marriage then why the talk about kids?!
We talked about engagement a few months ago and I decided to not talk about it anymore for now, because he used the argument: “I can’t propose now or you will think it’s because of this talk” and i let it go, and see what he comes up with in the next months, but yey… talking about us together having kids and choosing baby names is not very polite when he says to me that he thinks he’s to young for marriage (both now 25 years old).
🙁 Sorry for the long post, I just needed to vent a little.