He got me AGAIN!!

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Should I be excited?
    Nah... he just wants to go and eat some food with you. : (21 votes)
    72 %
    Yes you should be! I'm even excited for ya! : (1 votes)
    3 %
    I love chocolate! : (7 votes)
    24 %
  • Post # 3
    4433 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I wouldn’t overthink it because you’ll either 

    A. Get your hopes up/crushed

    B. Ruin the moment

    Just go with the flow.

    Post # 4
    1254 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  I think you’re looking at it the right way – even if he doesn’t propose how nice of him to organise a date at a nice restaurant for you. Easier said than done to not get your hopes up, I know. I was pissed at FI when he organised dinner for two and then a lookout to watch NYE fireworks from and no proposal eventuated (he intended too but the lookout was too crowded apparently. Whatever dude!) but we all get there eventually!

    Post # 5
    3249 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  Hummmm, maybe? I guess? I don’t know, have there been other signs lately?

    If it is a relatively fancy restaurant, I would definitely suspect more than if it was fairly ordinary. I guess it is pretty odd for him to take you out to dinner, so I don’t blame you for being excited!

    I don’t know, I’m in the throes of total uncertainty/excitement myself right now! I guess we’ll both just have to wait and see, argh!

    Post # 6
    7231 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  Even if going out to a restaurant isn’t really his thing, people still like to eat good food. I think it’s perfectly likely that he just has heard good things about some of their dishes and wants to try it. 

    Post # 8
    3249 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @tiff-tiff-tiff:  Oh yes, right!!! I forgot that. So this is more likely to be the proposal than not, you know? Since it’s not a big secret really!

    I’m not engaged yet (as you know) but I have been stockpiling antique buttons for my dress, which I’m going to make myself, for a few months. My SO must suspect something’s up when I keep acquiring antique glass buttons of the same type, over and over! I’ve told him I just like them, but I bet he suspects. 

    Wedding purchases are too much fun!


    Post # 9
    1771 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 1997

    I would not get my hopes up. (although I know that would be hard) but 8 years and 2 kids and he still has not proposed, think it would have already happened if it was going to. Sorry hon.

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