(Closed) He has the ring :)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i’ll be honest… if it was me i would be tearing the house apart by now πŸ™‚

exciting times for you!!!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d be going crazy if that were me. Be strong and resist the urge, call a friend or get out of there when you get tempted. Here’s hoping he doesn’t wait too long and you will be sharing your proposal with you soon πŸ™‚

 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ohh that would drive me crazy!! My wedding band is hidden somewhere in this house…I’ve searched but no luck lol

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I had picked out my ring and I knew it was in the house… this made things so hard! Just waiting and waiting for him to officially ask!! I finally broke down after a few weeks of minutes feeling like they lasted for days and said I didn’t care when or how he asked but that I wanted it now… LOL. He ended up proposing at that moment so I ruined it for myself… but waiting another whole week for Valentines day so he could propose in the Baltimore Aquarium would have driven me mad. We joke about it now but it was still special and was on Super Bowl Sunday (so I’ll never forget).

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Blue-Bird: YES.

Mines is hidden under our bed, which to be honest is a step up from before when it was just chilling out in the middle of our kitchen! Knowing it’s so close is like a constant reminder that you are waiting and of how close you could be!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@eloping: I agree!!

@Blue-Bird: Every time you feel the urge to snoop, bake something yummy!

Gwen

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Oh yikes!  Why do they put us in such perilous situations????  I like the idea of going for a walk when tempted to snoop. 

I peeked at my Christmas gifts ONCE when I was a child and Christmas morning was almost completely ruined for me that year.  I never did it again.

Don’t do it!!  Cool

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It made things so. much. harder.  So much so that I did actually take a sneak-peak… which I immediately regretted.  SO DON’T DO IT! πŸ˜‰  

And those are good ideas!  Walking or calling a friend, or baking (I pick baking! ha!).I have to do boring school work BLAH!

Post # 13
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Helper bee

My ring is in the house now as we speak, and he knows I know! I think he’s going to take it to work now πŸ˜›

It takes every ounce in me not to tear the place apart and look for it! I don’t want to spoil the moment for me or for him.

Stay strong, it’ll be worth it later! πŸ™‚ 

Edit: To answer your question, waiting is making it easier because I know it’s coming soon πŸ™‚ 

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My ring is in the house too – and he has no idea I know – I might tell him one day πŸ™‚

If I feel myself giving in to go look at it – I have only found the box and haven’t looked yet – I log onto the bee. Keeps me sane πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Blue-Bird: I’ve never went anywhere near it, about a week ago I asked him if he was worried about me looking at it and he said ‘no, I trust you not to look’ which at first I thought was mad but I really, really want to be surprised and I know he wants to surprise me – our flat is TINY, there is only one place he could hide it that I don’t need to rake through on a weekly basis.

It takes alot of willpower at times though!!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

Yes he has the ring.  He’s had it for almost 2 months.  And it makes waiting very difficult at times because I’m really just waiting for him to ask! I can’t believe these guys have this much willpower.  It’s hard but we’ll all get through it somehow, what choice do we all have hugs to you.  The only thing that saves me is the fact that SO and I don’t live together. 

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