He has the ring I have a timeline advice.. :/

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@Mswaiting0724:  OMG what does this part mean?  

The main thing that bothers me is was engaged before and he proposed sooner but it did not work out

Not sure if this is ‘we were engaged’ or ‘he was engaged’.

And you have already been ring shopping, it’s going to happen just be patient!!!!  I know it’s hard to wait, trust me I know….but it’s coming soon Smile

 

 

 

 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think if he bought the ring then you don’t have anything to worry about. Who would just drop thousands of dollars if they didn’t truly intend to propose relatively soon?

If he was engaged before and it didn’t work out then I think that is a perfectly valid reason for not rushing into it this time around. None of us can guess when it will happen, but IMO it does sound like it will at some point soon.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

@Mswaiting0724:  Just one more thought….I’ve been totally checking out the proposal section and it may help you to read about how many men get too built up over special moments and they let it pass…not because they don’t want to propose, but because asking the question is a big deal to them and it’s easy to get intimidated/put it off a bit.  Maybe he’s just been a little gun shy…It’ll happen!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

@Mswaiting0724:  If he has proposed before, sooner, and it didn’t work out then maybe he just wants to make sure to make it extra special this time. You obviously mean a lot to him and he doesn’t want this to be the same kind of proposal.

If he’s anything like my SO…he wants it to be a complete surprise. So anything like birthdays, V-day, holidays, etc. seem like the *perfect* time to you – may not be to him.

You have a 6 month timeline…that is NOT long! 🙂 You’re getting so close!

Let him do his planning and it will all be perfect :):)

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