He has the stone, and now he's stopped bringing up engagement.

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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1733 posts
Bumble bee

Seems like a good time to bring it up to me.  Particularly if he was talking about it so openly before.  If it was on both of your radar and then you dropped it too he might even be thinking you were having second thoughts about it.

Post # 3
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3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I agree with the PP.  It doesn’t hurt to bring it up.  Let him know your goals and discuss a timeline.  If he isn’t thinking about those things, it will at least get him thinking about the visit, as well.

Post # 4
Member
2679 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

oriskany:  Leave it alone. He probably wants to surprise you at least a little.

Post # 5
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600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I say leave it. He obviously wants to surprise you! Which, when he does catch you off guard, the rush is AMAZING! His nerves, your happy tears…believe me, I know from experience, because I went thru something a bit similar. I thought I’d wait FOREVER, then wham! He proposes out of left field. It was the best experience of my life, and if I had known, even a little, it would’ve taken away from the whole thing.

Post # 6
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1215 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

oriskany:  It doesn’t take very long to set a stone once the setting has been created. Perhaps he is waiting for the setting to be done before removing the stone to try to surprise you. Your ring could be being made right now! 🙂

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