- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
Ive done all the running around and research on getting us great deals and planned most of the wedding (with running things by him to make sure he likes the things i have chosen) and i have paid for almost everything on my own.
He hasnt put in not one cent , he was suppose to start helping me pay for the wedding by starting to give me some money each week but each week comes he has another excuse or something else to pay.
So here i am working 6 days a week , doing as much overtimes as i can, cut out any social life i had just to be ablke to pay evry free dollar that i have to the wedding.
So i am paying a mortgage, the water and council rates, the body corporate rates and the electricity, plus all the wedding stuff.
And although he still lives at home (yes with his family) and yes its not his responsibility to pay the water and council rates, the body corporate rates and the electricity or the mortgage cause its my place )which will also be his once we are married) but he could at least help with the wedding.
I dont know what to do cause i hate having to keep telling him that he needs to start giving me money to go towards the wedding…..
Sorry guys just venting, we have 8 months to the weddin
We have 8 months to the wedding and i have paid for the: The chapel in full, The celebrant, The invitations, The bonbonieres, The bridesmaid dresses, The grooms mens suits, Our Wedding rings, The flowers, My dress shoes and accessories, The honeymoon tickets and accomodation, The Deposit for the Photographer and The Deposite for the Reception a total of $20,000
All i asked for him to pay is the Video person$2600, The cars $2300, The photographer balance $1050 and the balance of the reception $8500, so a total of $14450.
Mean while i have covered all that we had set for me to pay he hasnt even started paying anything towards the things he said he would, so looks like im going to have to start to pay off as much of this as i can too……
and then what? cause i know there is no way i can pay it all on my own in 8 months….
Oh i dont know what to do anymore… i feel like a materialistic bitch naging him for money … but i cant do it on my own anymore…….
Sorry ladies just venting…