He hasn't said happy birthday!!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2880 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

@Mrsdickinson:  oh I’d be sad too:( 

Happy Birthday!!  I hope he calls you soon

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Happy birthday!

 

 I don’t have any advice, but I’m so sorry that your SO didn’t say anything. 🙁

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

@Mrsdickinson:  well I think he needs a big kick in the arse. Thats just not nice:(

Maybe he will surprise you with something when he gets home. Fingers crossed that your day get better real soon:))))

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Mrsdickinson:  “He hasn’t even brought me a card, because he was looking yesterday and didnt see  any he liked.”

OK that says to me that he’s been trying. My guess is he simply forgot this morning because, well, he’s a guy and guys sometimes forget. I’m sure he’ll wish you happy birthday later on!

EDIT: haha that’s autocorrect gone crazy!

Post # 11
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Honey bee

@Mrsdickinson:  Seriously? How old are you two? Did he actually say he was “punishing you for a bad attitude?”

If so, that is absolutely ridiculous and immature. You are his SO, not his child. I would so not be ok with this. My birthday is actually in two days and my FI has always got me a card and some kind of gift (regardless of if we have had a fight recently), and I do the same for him. In the 10 years we have been together, we have never “punished” each other. 

I would suggest having a serious conversation with your SO and resolving this like mature adults.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@bmo88:  +1…. this just sounds really extreme to me.

Post # 14
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Honey bee

@Mrsdickinson:  Then I would definitely have a serious conversation with him asap. That is absolutely unacceptable for him to treat you that way. Like I said before, you are in an intimate relationship with him, you are NOT his child!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@bmo88:  i agree.

 

as a side note, what does OH stand for?

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

@li612:  OH = Other Half.

OP: First, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!  Secondly, I am so, so sorry!  I really think that in a couple days when the dust has blown over that you seriously talk to him about this.  The argument was dumb & even if it wasn’t, you deserve to be treated as an equal in the relationship, not a child.  You OH doesn’t get to “punish” you.  How ridiculous!

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