- anne B
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
Well its not exactly a whirlwind romance, we have been together for 15 years…..16 by the time we get married next year.
Anywyay i have a son and daughter from my previous marriage, and he has 2 daughters, so once we decided to get married, i told my 2, and left it to him to tell his…
there would never be a time when they would all be together to tell them collectively. they are all between the ages of 21 & 25, 2 have their own houses, 2 are at Uni.
So i have planned in my head that my daughter will be my bridesmaid, along with my sons girlfriend, and they are excited about it, and then of course FIs 2 daughters aswell, and was going to ask them TODAY! as its my first time seeing them since we planned to get married….. my son will walk me down the aisle.
One of his daughters are coming here today to see her dad, and he just said to me…..i suppose i’ll tell SXXX today, then tell the CXXX next week when i see her….
i was under the impression he had told them already! and that when she came over today i was going to ask her to be a bridesmaid!
Well that will have to wait now because although we have always got on great, I want to see her reaction to me marrying her dad….if its a happy one then i will ask her straight away, but if she lookes dissapproving, then maybe i wont ask her at all……
I am so bloody angry at FI, we said we would not be able to tell them all together, but that we will tell them at the same time….so my kids have known for nearly a month now, so whats his daughters going to say when they realise they were the last to know?
i could KILL him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(wish me luck for later) 🙂