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He hit my cervix :(

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    LadyLuna711    July 16, 2011  

    Now I'm super afraid to have sex! This has happened twice in one week. The first time it hurt so bad I felt like crying. He felt bad, but I had no idea what happened at the time. The second it was just grazed but we had to stop because I guess it was still hurting from a few days before. 

    Now that I know it was my CERVIX I'm totally freaked out, lol. This has never happened before. Has this happened to you ladies?

     
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    Firefighter_Bride    August 13, 2011   British Columbia

    FI always hits my cervix but it's never painful...I know of a few friends where it's very uncomfortable for them but not unbareble. I suggest getting a doctor to check it out and make sure everything is okay

     
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    starburst77    7-25-11  

    Hitting your cervix should not hurt. If it hurts so much there may be an infection going on. Get yourself to an dr to get it checked out.

     
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    Goodie    September 10, 2011   Midwest

    I'm wondering if this is what happened to us a few times... I think it's happened no more than five times total in the past 4+ years, but it is excruciating. Just thinking about it is making my stomach hurt a little.

    So, what does that mean? Like, apart from the horrible pain, is it a bad thing? Are there consquences or problems related to this? Now I'm worried. :/ 

     

    Anybody have any insight?

     
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    spraguebride    August 8, 2009   Bothell, WA

    It happens and sometimes it can hurt. I have certainly felt like I was being stabbed in my tummy in the past.  It's ok though....it will not do damage it is happens every now and then. It's very normal for that to happen.

    Just watch positions. Not to be graphic.....but doggy style can make is more likely for that to happen. So stay away from that. 

     

     
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    double0bride    April 23, 2011  

    @LadyLuna711: I second and third the others- further investigation is necessary, a bump to the cervix should not be causing you serious discomfort.

     
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    sceeder    June 23, 2012  

    It happens. I had my doctor look at it and she basically said it can happen and be painful. 

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    You should go to a doctor just to make sure you don't have an infection. You can feel your own cervix by using your middle finger and if you push it gently and it still hurts, the you should probably talk to a doctor to make sure everything is okay. 
    Or perhaps you were in a funky position the first time it happened or maybe you weren't relaxed. The cervix isn't that far up your vagina so he's probably hitting it all the time. 

     
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    MissHoneyBun       Dallas, TX

    Certain positions make it easier to smack into it. It hurts but it shouldn't hurt so bad you cry. If it's that bad I'd talk to your doctor.

     
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    babybumblebee      

    Idk, I've had sex with bigger guys that would hit my cervix all the time. I sometimes experienced a little soreness, but it wasn't THAT painful. I think something more serious might be going on if it hurts that badly. I'd suggest getting it checked out!

     
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    LadyLuna711    July 16, 2011  

    Funny enough I recently got a routine checkup for infections prior and was A-OK...

    Oh! And I didn't actually cry; the pain just made me feel like doing so. It lasted a few seconds then went away, I wanted to stop though. Then when he hit it again it was a little sore. When I figured out what it was I was like "Ohhhhh....ewww!" LOL. 

    I have another appointment next week so I'll ask just to make sure. 

     
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    Phofe2774    April 7, 2012   CA

    It used to hurt when my cervix was hit, then my Dr found a huge cyst in my uterus and now that the cyst is gone, it doesn't hurt when my cervix is hit. Coincidence, medically sounds? I have no idea, but it used to hurt sooooo bad. Now it only hurts when I am ovulating, but not nearly as bad. I agree with the PP, go to the doctor, it shouldn't hurt to get it on :)

     
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    LadyLuna711    July 16, 2011  

    I googled this also and I keep reading that the penis shouldn't be up that far and pain is normal? Now I'm confused.

     
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    aprilsixteenth    April 16, 2011  

    @Phofe2774: Ditto!

    I get this pain quite frequently during sex and used to just put it down to him hitting my cervix- but found out recently that I have a massive ovarian cyst which is causing the pain!

    Not trying to freak you out of course, but it's definitely something worth getting checked out!

     

     

     
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    double0bride    April 23, 2011  

    @LadyLuna711: Penises can reach up that far- it depends on both partner's anatomy, and position. Female anatomy is flexible and squishy- for lack of a better medical term- and generally accommodating.

    It can be normal to feel pain when something touches the cervix, or to even feel faint or nauseous. We all vary in our level of sensitivity. Some women holler during paps, others just feel a little bump. 

    You should see a doctor, just to be sure that there isn't a problem. While pain may be normal for some, it could also be caused by a medical condition- HPV, friable cervix, uterine or ovarian cysts, myositis, endometritis or endometriosis, STD sequelae... the list goes on.

    When it doubt, get checked out.

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    @LadyLuna711: That's Def wrong. You can touch your cervix with your middle finger. Your guy is probably longer than your middle finger. This is how doctors check pregnant women to see how far along they are in labor. Your dude doesn't need to be 10 inches long to hit your cervix. 

     
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    tall_jenny    August 27, 2011   Victoria, BC, Canada

    This has happened to me, and it hurt a bit. Kind of like a sharper version of cramps. I think my cervix is more sensitive though. I feel kind of crampy and uncomfortable during paps too

     
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    futuremrskelsey    July 1, 2011  

    Just read this month's issue of Cosmo and it said that pain during sex could be due to ovarian cysts.  Not to scare you or anything but you should talk to a doctor, just in case.

     
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    Mrs.HoneyBunchesofOats    July 22, 2011   San Diego, CA

    Aww, sorry to hear that! It happens to me often--sometimes it hurts, sometimes it doesn't. I suggest trying different positions or going to the doctor's to make sure there's nothing wrong down there! 

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    This title makes me cringe a little every time I read it. Or think of a dude "punching" (aka hitting) someone's cervix. I'm ridiculous.

    I also suggest seeing the good ol' gyno. If it's nothing, great, but wouldn't you feel better knowing for sure versus googling info on the internet?

     
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    @Mrs.tobe: lol, hitting the cervix reminds me of this:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmUnLZobESs

    Sorry for threadjacking!

     
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    LadyLuna711    July 16, 2011  

    @Mrs.tobe:  LMAO! sorry for the dramatic title. Maybe I should change it to "touched"? But then that would sound a little more odd lol.

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @LadyLuna711: Nah, don't change it. Then I'll just keep thinking it's a different thread or something.  lol

     

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