(Closed) He is too kind sometimes…

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
Member
414 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Hmmm.  Honestly, that’s kind of strange.  Did you and his friend have issues in the past? 

Post # 5
Member
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

You just need to be honest with your FI. Just TELL him you don’t think it’s right he’s not having his best friend there simply for your sake–that is so strange to me. It’s not like you have a big tiff. You’re just not a fan of the guy. If you think it’s b/c they aren’t really close any more, just ask him if that’s the reason. no beating around the bush.

Post # 6
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Is there a history between the two of you?  If there isn’t, I don’t see why he is being so insistent that the friend not be there.  You probably won’t even see him much during the wedding anyway since you will have to go around and talk to all of your guests that day.

Post # 8
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1237 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I mean, if he’s understanding enough to not invite this guy to make you happy, he should also be understanding enough to invite him to make both of you happy, right? I think you need to talk it out a bit more. If he doesn’t get it, you could always pull a “I Love You Man” and invite him yourself, lol.

Post # 10
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414 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Yeah, you guys definitely need to talk it out.  You can’t feel bad about it!  Not fair to you

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