- 7 years ago
So I was all prepared to be furious with my husband when I got home… He has been at work for the last two days (and nights) and was supposed to come straight over (I watch two little girls over at a friends house) to see us. But then he realized he needed to get his oil changed and go pay the rent and utilities… can’t be mad about that. Then he says he needs to go help his friend move. WTF who doesn’t arrange things like that in advance? I don’t think in a normal circumstance I would get upset but lately he has been off doing other things on his off time, and he is at work around 80% of the time, and that means days and nights because he’s in the military. I was feeling like he didn’t want to see us I guess, and he apologized over text and I said “don’t say sorry to me, say it to your daughter. She’s the one who doesn’t understand why you’re not here.”
Harsh.. I know, but it’s true! She asks where he is every day and really looks forward to him coming home from work. Guess I got my point across because I came home to 2 dozen roses, a movie I’ve been dying to see and chocolates. He even got a teddy bear for our little girl.
He promised to be home a lot more, and spend less time with friends and hobbies… he also said he didn’t realize how sad we had both been. Why does he make it impossible for me to stay mad!? Although I’m still a little upset, it would make me a total b*tch to gripe at him now. Oh well, hopefully he keeps his word :/