Post # 1
I stumbled upon (ok snooped around and found) information that he returned the engagement setting he ordered in November. I’m not sure what the issue is/was but either way that is not a good sign. I doubt he is having second thoughts, but honestly WTF is going on and why hasn’t it been resolved??
Post # 3
Have you been showing him pictures of rings you like around November up to now? Maybe jhe thought you wouldn’t like the ring he chose and returned it.
Post # 4
@Cory_loves_this_girl: I went with him to pick it out! They wrote down ALL the information because he said he didn’t want to screw it up. I found an e-mail confirmation that he ordered the setting and the center stone back in November…..fast forward to January and I found out he sent it back— wtf geez???
Post # 5
Any financial problems where he may have had to put the ring on hold and have that money back for now instead?
Post # 6
@Lily_of_the_valley: Maybe something about it didn’t turn out right, so he returned it. Any financial issues that might be a contributing factor?
Post # 7
First breath it is going to be okay. There was probably something wrong with the ring or he found it for less somewhere else.
Post # 8
oh no… dont’ freak out…
keep yourself busy with other rings. everything will reveal itself in time.
Post # 9
Post # 10
@bbsoon2be: what the…. was exactly my reaction!
Post # 11
@HappilyEverAfter54: I don’t think there are any financial problems but I don’t know?? We share the same accounts so technically I will be paying for 1/2 the ring. Everything looks normal to me!!?
Post # 12
When my Fiance ordered my ring, he got a trellace setting instead of a basket setting! He knew I didn’t like that setting, so he sent it back and waited for the right one to come. I had no clue he was had a ring, let alone was proposing, but he told me the story after. He ended up having to push the proposal back a few weeks while waiting for the new ring. Maybe it’s something like that!!
Post # 13
@Lily_of_the_valley: Could you just ask him?
If I found this out, there’s no way I could keep quiet. You’re not technically snooping if you share the same accounts.
I’d go crazy since I make mountains out of molehills.
Like the PP say, it’s probably something like he ordered the wrong one or something was wrong with it etc… but who knows, right.
I’d just ask.
Post # 14
Eek! I’m sure there’s a reasonable explanation. So you just gotta quit snooping because you don’t want to upset yourself over something that’s probably nothing. 🙂
If you are helping pay for the ring, you can just ask, right?
Post # 15
Why not communicate with him openly? Since you were involved in picking it out, why not just ask instead of worrying?
Post # 16
I agree with PP I would HAVE to ask!