Post # 1
my fiance has this HUGE issue with seeing my dress or knowing anything about it, so i try to keep the pics hidden but i look at them so much that i forgot to close it yesterday!…He saw it for a split second and closed the comp real fast so i dont even think he knows exactly what it looks like.. now he wants me to change the dress but its my dream dress 🙁 .. he says its the one thing thats important to him…but u know when you find on “the” dress you cant change it! help what do i do
Post # 3
Keep your foot down. This is YOUR dress not his. Tell him it looks good on you.
Post # 4
Tell him that if his superstition about seeing your dress is going to be the “make or break” for your marriage, then he needs to rethink this wedding. Seriously??? You do not need a new dress. Keep your dream dress, he won’t even remember having seen it on your wedding day.
Post # 5
Keep it. You won’t even look the same on the day of your wedding: you’ll be all dolled up and accessorized and wearing your happy glow 🙂
Post # 6
Don’t worry! You’ll look completely different on the day wearing it with your hair and make-up done etc.
Post # 7
Keep it! That would be THE most ridiculous reason to get rid of your dream dress. He won’t even notice!
Post # 8
Or tell him it’s already changed? So he can rest as ease?
Post # 9
keep it! honestly even though FI saw a dress on me (long story ended up with a different dress now) he didnt even realize it was the same dress until he saw a picture of me in it all dolled up and with accesories on.
once you are all spiffed and primped and polished and accesorzed he wont even reconize it i promise!
and if he makes a big deal about it i could condone lyeing and saying you got a “different dress that is similar to the first one”
Post # 10
You keep that dress, especially if its your dream dress! He will be so overwhelmed to see you walking down the aisle that he will forget he got a split second look of that dress. Anyone can get a split second look of a dress and all the details they are going to collect from that are, white wedding dress. Thats it. Unless you’re a bridal consultant theres no way he would know the details. I’d tell him that was one of the contenders anyway then just get that one. He will never know the difference!
Post # 11
Awww thats sweet hes worried about it. Same thing happened to me.. I was way more upset than him. But whatevs.. Wear your dream dress! He wont know what hit him.
Post # 13
@pinkbean: tell him you changed your dress and keep the one you have lol men are silly i bet he wont remember what dress you were wearing in the picture lol i hope this works for you
Post # 14
So for a split second he wants you to change the dress? tell him to pay for it (same cost as what you have). he’ll change his tune.
Post # 15
Tell him you’re getting a new dress, then wear the original one! He won’t even notice lol. I’m kidding that’s super mean to lie to him but my fiance would be mad if he saw my dress and probably insist that I get a new one, but little does he know I showed it to him (among images of many others) and he will never know. I wanted to be sure he liked it!
Post # 16
thanks you guys.. i was feeling guilty that even though it was so “important” to him to change it i wasnt gonna listen… just making sure thats not messed of me to do! 🙂