(Closed) He wants my input on a ring but is making me wait for it. Im going crazy lol

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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648 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Hehe, I know how you feel and it’s soooo annoying! My BF and I went looking at rings 4 years ago but I didn’t want to get engaged quite yet so I knew I would have to wait for a few years after that. (Taking the ring off in the store and leaving without it is hard!) I have the patience of a flea though, so even though waiting was my choice I STILL hated waiting. I found that the only thing that kept me sane was keeping busy. I tried not to think about engagement, but when I can’t get it out of my head and need to talk about it I just come on here:) Works like a charm for me!

…Though it’s still hard to wait, hehe.

Post # 4
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1113 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@Sammicake:  My SO had me put my input in the ring as well, since he knows how picky I am about what jewelry I wear….even moreso since I have worked in the medical field. We went two weeks ago and looked at them again since there was an event, and I fell in love with two of them…he pickd the one I was more in love with though. He said the sparkle in my eyes gave it away. NOW just to wait for it…..aw man it has been rough knowing that the ring is in order. BUT I try to make myself busy and do things for myself and get out of the house…..as well as try my hardest not to think about it too much when we are together, as I know it will be coming soon.

Post # 5
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2567 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Oh knowing he’s planning is the worst! (Not the worst, but you know what I mean…lol)

Take my advice and try not to get too anxious about the ring and impending engagement.  I was a serious hot mess the 6 months he was making payments on the ring (I did not even know until afterwards that he was making payments and that he did not even pick up the ring until a full three weeks before I actually got it!). 

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