(Closed) He wants to break up

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1030 posts
Bumble bee

oh my gosh I’m so sorry!

was this said during a fight? or has he been thinking this over for a while and really means it?

only because i know sometimes these things get said – especially when it come to age – and they regret it once the words have come out.

*mega hugs*

Post # 4
4659 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

*hug* I’m really sorry to hear it. You don’t need to leave if being here helps. It’s never easy. You can message me if you need or want to talk — about this, or anything else, since a breakup can be rough on a lot of different aspects of your life.

Post # 5
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Very sorry. Please take care of yourself. Everything happens for a reason and time will show you this reason.

Post # 7
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh, I’m so sorry to hear this. Maybe hee needs some time to mull it over?

I know hearing that everything happens as it should isn’t comforting right now. But it is true.

I hope everything turns out ok. *Hugs*

Post # 8
886 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

No man on earth is worth dying over. Even if he wasn’t the right person for you, you *will* find the right person someday. And looking back on all this, you will realize how it was a good thing you broke up well before marriage, kids, etc. Tons of other ladies here went through this. Stay strong! Spend time with your girlfriends. Go on vacation. Pick up a new hobby. Whatever it takes to get your mind off of this for now. :hugs:


Post # 9
386 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Age is just a number, “Age gap” if that is all the reason he is giving you love, he doesn’t deserve you.

Remember the wind from one door closing opens another

Hugs, and please stay strong


Post # 10
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

How much of an age gap is there? Age shouldn’t be a factor… My mom was 12 years younger and a man I know is 76 and his wife is 32…  and both couples have been together for AGES! Does he have health problems which may make him consider unworthy of a younger wife?

Post # 11
12890 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh my gosh, I’m so, so sorry!  I hope you two can work it out somehow!!  Hugs to you!

Post # 13
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Is he willing to sit down and talk about it with you?  Could you go to a counselor together?  Maybe he’s feeling some apprehension about the future.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this right now.  Stay strong.

Post # 15
1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Im sorry your dealing with this….it sucks!

Hang in there, I would give him a day or two of space and then revisit the issue with him and try to have a conversation face to face to make sure that he is sure.  If its meant to be it will work itself out…hugs! And good luck!

Post # 16
11 posts
  • Wedding: November 2006

So sorry to hear this.  Were you able to find out any more information from him?

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