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Third and FINAL dress!

He wants to change our date!!!

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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    FI just left me a voicemail saying we have to change our wedding because it is labor day weekend and people may not be able to make it. When I asked if he was afraid he wouldn't be able to get it off because of the business aspect, he said no. He was worried his 2 GM's in Portland may not get the day off. Never mind that it's 5 months in advance and it sounds like he didn't talk to them first! I left one a voicemail to ask. I don't see how it should be an issue since he knows the manager at that store, is close to her, and she knew he was getting married when we transfered here. The GM's should be able to say it's FI's wedding and get if off. I don'ty know what to tell him! Our invites are printed so they can go out in Early June!

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    i would totally talk to him about it and not change it over a voicemail! Definitely call the GM's first! Sounds like he freaking out about it when he needs to check out facts first!

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    I told him I planned for issues with that weekend. I left a message for one GM to call me to see if it would really be an issue. I think he's blowing steam over nothing...= (

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    Yea thats what it sounds like! plus if you already thought ahead, it totally shouldn't be an issue. guys are such dorks sometimes, lol.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Even when I told him that he said we HAVE to change it. Hopefully upon talking to the GM it won't be a problem. But you'd think he;d have figured out it was Labor day before we had been engaged 6 months!

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    Haha you would seriously think so! The only thing that would be an issue with mine is that my monster in laws bday is 2 days after the wedding, but i really don't care, haha.

     
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    Miss Britt    June 25, 2010   Kalamazoo, MI

    I wanted to change my date 4 months before my wedding because I found out a venue I loved became open.  There was just so much work involved, I said no way.  It seems like such a hassle.  I would be really surprised if his GM couldn't get a weekend off if they ask for it 5 months in advance!  That is crazy.  Wouldn't they be more likely to have it off because it's a holiday weekend?

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    they all work for Fred Meyer (Kroger branch) so not neccisarily. lol. FI did say we won't change it, thoguh! What a relief!

     
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    Mrs.MedinaJr    November 11, 2011   Houston

    oh thank goodness you dont have to change it afterall! especially since you got your invites printed

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Oh no @bar that title scared me but so happy it is all worked out for you! that would have been such a headache! 

    hugs anyways :) !!

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    Yeah I think that you should ask the people that he's concerned about and be sure.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Apparently after talking with his manager about it, she's not a happy camper. I was not happy that he thought of changing it to begin with, but now I'm annoyed with his boss. I mean, it's our wedding day! She has no right to freak out on him about this. I hope they can work it out, but overall we are for sure keeping our date and are happy the GM's won't have an issue. = )

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    I am so glad that you get to keep your date, especiallly since you're in the 5 month period.

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    Whew!! I'm glad that all worked out. You scared me when I first started reading so I can only imagine how you felt.

     

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