- 6 years ago
FI and I haven’t decided whether we’re going to have a head table or just sit at the front on a round table more blended in. Either way, we figured we’d have our bridal party’s BF’s sitting with us, since we’re only having my best friend and his sister stand up for us. Mum, again with her opinions, thinks it’d be REALLY weird if the BF’s sat with us at a head table and other guests will think, “who the hell are those guys?! are they in the wedding party? they weren’t apart of the ceremony?!” She said it’d be fine if we decided to blend in more, but not with a head table. I don’t really care and I don’t think FI does either, but they may not even feel comfortable sitting at the head table anyway.
What your thoughts and opinions, hive? Would it be weird if BF’s are at the head table? I’d like to mention that in a wedding that FI was in a couple summers ago, if I had been able to go I would have been sitting at the head table with the bridal party (again, only 2 people standing up) because the only people I knew were the bride, groom and FI. (and the groom’s family, but that would include FI’s ex-GF… groom’s sister.)